In the process of chasing girls, what boys fear most is when they are preparing to buy breakfast for girls, give girls umbrellas for rain, order takeaways for girls, prepare birthday gifts for girls... when they hear girls say to themselves No. Because boys will think that when girls accept their kindness, they accept themselves, and when girls say no, they reject it. How can a girl appear to have high emotional intelligence when she says no?
1. What does a girl mean when she says no?
1. A girl is angry. Sometimes a girl may call you for something, but you don't answer. At that time, she is very anxious. Wait until you see the girl’s phone number and then call her and ask her what’s going on, do you need help? She will tell you no, everything has been solved, and of course she won't tell you anything if you ask her again. In this case, the girl is actually angry with you, so you need to call and ask carefully. It's not that she says it's okay and you just hang up the phone and it's over, but you need to coax her and it will be fine. But don’t miss her call next time.
2. Girls feel sorry for you and are troublesome. If a girl is working overtime and it rains and she goes home without an umbrella, you offer to pick her up and give her an umbrella. A girl who really cares about you may think this is too much trouble and thinks she can just take a taxi home, or if she wants to be more reserved with you, she will actually be very happy if you insist on picking her up. But a girl might just be polite to you and reject you because she doesn't think it's necessary.
3. Girls reject you. A girl may not be so polite to the people she likes. Instead, she will keep a distance from the people she doesn't like. She will say no to anything you propose to do for her, for fear of bothering you and she will have to return the favor in the future.
2. How to respond with high emotional intelligence when a girl says no?
1. Why are you being polite to me? It is my honor to serve you. Please allow me to do things for you!
2. I know you feel sorry for me, but I also want to give a little for you. Otherwise, how can you see the shining point in me?
3. If you really feel sorry for yourself, then treat me to a meal another day, so that we can be even!
4. When did you become so polite? What is our relationship? Don’t say these words.
5. What’s not needed? I'm going to use it.
Finally, boys should insist on doing it no matter whether the girl says no or not. This can also show your sincerity. . Otherwise, girls will think, look, I just said no to him politely, which is not reliable at all. But for girls who firmly reject you, you may not need to persist.
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