Question:
I met a girl online. After chatting for a few days (with a video), I went to find her. Because the journey was far away, she was already exhausted when I arrived, so I drove in the hotel. I got a room and waited for her to get off work. She came directly to the hotel to find me after work, and then we went out to eat together. After we came back, we naturally had a relationship (ahem, I took the initiative, and so did she). I could feel that she liked me quite a lot, and I also Have a crush on her. Can you help me analyze it from the perspective of men, women, and both sexes: Is it normal for men and women to have sex when they meet for the first time? Would it be too casual?
Answer:
In fact, there are many online dating couples in life who finally succeeded in getting together. The inability to be together does not depend on what happened during the first meeting, but on the development of subsequent contacts.
You were doing troubleshooting while chatting, and the result was no problem. The three levels were consistent: long-term correlation, language level, and distance level, so we met for the first time.
After the meeting, we checked for a second time whether the other items were consistent: smell, taste, and sexual taste, and then conducted another investigation. There was no problem in the end, and the relationship happened naturally afterward. There should be no problem here.
However, if you want to continue to develop, you need to have a deeper understanding and integration. At this time, there will also be many variables and risks. Just continue to get to know each other. There is nothing to show off or worry about. Your relationship has taken a step forward so far, which is pretty good.
It can only be said that a girl who can applaud when they meet for the first time is a rare girl who dares to love and hate, and is brave enough to do her best. When she loves you, this is a huge advantage and allows you to experience true and pure emotion. When she is tired of you, this is a huge disadvantage. At that time, you'd better not let her spend any thoughts on you, otherwise it will be extremely easy to think that you have too many things and quickly consume her feelings.
As for whether you are worried about whether the girl you have sex with the first time you meet is too casual, and whether you will be together after you actually get together? There is a problem with the forgiveness cap. This can only be known after subsequent contact. You can also ask her for her opinion. I don’t think people who have sex with each other for the first time are just random people. It’s possible that they haven’t seen her for a year, just this time, and it’s the first time for both of you. When having a relationship, think about whether you are a casual person, think about whether you want to be with her, and if you do, tell her clearly.
Of course, whether you are a boy or a girl, you must pay attention to protecting yourself when online, and pay attention to understand whether the other party has any sexually transmitted diseases. The other party may not know the physical condition of the other party, and the other party may also be very sensitive. You are innocent, you were infected by others, but are you ready to bear the consequences? Don't waste your life just because of one indulgence.
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