Generally, girls you meet on a blind date are introduced by acquaintances. Regardless of whether you like the girl you are dating, you should treat her well. It is great if you meet a girl you like on a blind date. Even if the girl you meet on a blind date is not your type, you must be emotionally intelligent and reject it. , otherwise you may be secretly complained by the girls on the blind date that you don’t know how to be a good person, and no one will dare to introduce you to blind dates in the future. Let me share with you how to reject a girl you don’t like on a blind date and teach you how to reject the blind date with high emotional intelligence.
1. Sorry, thinking about it. I think it would be better to be friends than a couple. To be honest, you have better conditions than me in all aspects. You are stable and generous, motivated and reliable, and your words and deeds are gentle, polite and just right. I won't waste your time. It's really nice to meet you. Thank you for your help and care during this time. If there is anything I can help you with in the future, just let me know. Best wishes!
2. I have been in contact with you for two weeks, and I have gotten to know you a little bit. I found that you are quite kind, but our hobbies and lifestyles are indeed very different. We have a common language. Relatively few, we are not the same type of people, and you are not young anymore. I think it is better to make it clear that we are not suitable. Thank you for your concern during this time.
3. Take her to eat high-end delicious food (I can’t refuse the macarons from Chuhua’s Oyster Peninsula). When you are extremely satisfied with the meal, you can ride the starlight through the river and go home. When you are in love, you can talk to her gently about (xia) your heart (che) and your affairs (dan), and then talk and talk and you can say, I tell you one thing, don’t hit me. In fact, I am getting more and more I don’t think I’m ready yet. As the saying goes, I have to wait until your hair reaches your waist. It’s not good if I delay you. God will strike me. I think we should just be friends. You can hit me now. .
4. Girls with high emotional intelligence who refuse to date are generally treated coldly by WeChat. If the girl on the blind date is not too stupid, it is the most basic respect to explain tactfully that it is not appropriate. Girls always have a lot of random thoughts. So make it clear. It will not delay both parties. It can also be considered as an explanation for this blind date.
5. Tell the other person directly that you are a good girl, but unfortunately you are not my type and I have no feelings for you. I wish you find your own happiness as soon as possible. Goodbye!
6. Occasionally, you take the initiative to contact girls on a blind date. When you contact them, you don’t take the initiative to find topics. Let the girls on a blind date find topics. You also never talk about yourself, so that girls on a blind date have no way of knowing you. You will not take the initiative to make appointments. If you are on a blind date, If a girl makes an appointment, she doesn't refuse, goes to the appointment, but still doesn't take the initiative to chat. Let the girl on the blind date choose her own food and find topics to talk about. Don't even give her her phone number... In this way, the girl who is interested in the blind date will leave.
In fact, girls on blind dates are also very sensible. When she finds that a boy is cold, she will realize that the boy is not interested in her, so being appropriately cold or making it clear directly will not cause more harm to her. .
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