How to judge whether a girl has a boyfriend is a headache for many boys. If you ask directly like a straight man, it will not only appear that your emotional intelligence is very low, but it will also greatly reduce your impression of yourself, which will make those who Girls who are not very interested in you will become defensive, making it more difficult to advance the relationship. So besides asking directly, how can you tell whether a girl has a boyfriend?
It’s actually very simple. Asking directly is unreliable, so why don’t we “indirectly” ask girls if they have a boyfriend.
Without further ado, let’s just give an example:
Suppose you and a girl are colleagues or classmates, you met through meeting, and you usually meet in this kind of situation, then one day when you two When you meet again, you can ask indirectly:
The steps are as follows:
The first step is to observe whether she has a backpack and wears jewelry
Step two, find an opportunity to interact
Step three, ask her indirectly, saying, "Your bag/earrings are really nice. Did you buy them with your boyfriend~"
< p> The result will naturally be known.If you and the girl haven’t had the opportunity to meet each other yet, but you just met online and can’t meet in person, there is actually a way.
First step, observe her mood while chatting
Second step, if she is in a good mood, she will say "hahahaha"; or if she is not in a good mood and is unhappy
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Step 3: Reply to her and say "I'm so happy. I just bought clothes with my boyfriend. This is~" or "Why are I unhappy? I had a quarrel with my boyfriend?"
We passed You can quickly find out if you have a boyfriend by asking indirectly, and you can avoid a lot of embarrassment and leave yourself a way out.
However, regarding whether girls have boyfriends, people who have experienced it will tell you two facts:
Fact 1: If you are of high value, even if she has it, she may still tell you "no" and let you pursue it.
Fact 2: If you are not of high value, even if she does not have it, she may still tell you "she does" and reject your pursuit.
Therefore, no matter whether a girl has a boyfriend or not, our focus should still be on our own value, methods and skills, and learn to understand her and women.
This is like, in a football match, what if there is a goalkeeper?
Put Messi and Ronaldo on, and they will still shoot into the goal; but if they never play football If someone comes up, even if the goal is unguarded, he will still not be able to shoot into the goal; therefore, don’t be too obsessed with whether the opponent has a boyfriend.Instead of being friends, you need to learn the correct way to pursue her. This will be more important to you!
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