If you confess your feelings to a girl, or if you are too demanding and she finds out that you want to pursue her, you will easily be rejected by the girl at this time. Girls' rejections are usually more tactful, such as "You are not my type" and "I don't want to fall in love yet." Of course it is very embarrassing to encounter such a situation. What should I do at this time? If a girl says you are not my type, how should you reply without being embarrassed? Let me share it with you below.
How to reply if you are not my type
1. I understand, but we are still friends, right?
Since girls have rejected you like this, I understand that you should reply to her directly, but we are still friends, right? In the future, you should get along with her as a friend first, and slowly let her change her impression of you and slowly accept you. To chase a girl, you must first understand her heart. Knowing how to attract a girl and make her like you is the key.
2. I will work hard to make myself your ideal type
In fact, the standard for girls to choose a mate is to be able to It changes with time, more experiences, and wider knowledge. This means that a girl is limited by her current age, experience, and knowledge, so she has formed the concept of not liking boys like you. At this time, no matter what you do, it will be difficult to change her mind. Just like some boys are willing to be a bitch for girls. No matter how you persuade him or give him evidence, you can't shake his heart, because at this time he feels that his choice is the right one. But when you mention this to him a few years or more than ten years later, he will even follow you and yell at you about how stupid you were and how scumbag that girl was.
So you can answer a girl like this: "I will try my best to make myself your ideal type", and then leave in style, temporarily stop pursuing, and continue to improve yourself. The next time I show up is just as a friend, accompanying her to meet those boys, defeating them with my own excellence, making her realize that her choice is wrong, and even getting to know more outstanding girls, giving her a sense of crisis .
3. Let time prove everything
When a girl uses the excuse that you are not my type When rejecting you, don't deliberately ask a girl what type she likes, because she may not be able to tell you the reason, she just simply rejects you first and just finds an excuse casually. In this case, you should find a way to quietly change the girl's impression of your rejection, and then make her fall in love with you quietly. How to do it specifically? When you defeat everyone, you naturally become her only choice and the best choice. The turning point of everything lies in what you said to her at the beginning. At that time, she had already looked at you differently. Later, the better you did, the better you became.Show, the more she becomes shaken, the easier it is for you to fall in love with you, until she finally falls completely.
In fact, this point is very critical. When you understand a girl’s mind, you will basically be able to figure her out. He will feel that you understand her very well, and you will start to interact emotionally, which will produce joy. The attraction brought by the emotions of anger, sorrow, and joy is very huge.
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