When our girlfriend is angry, we should take prompt action to comfort her in order to solve the problem and maintain a good relationship. Here are some ways to help you answer your phone when she's angry.
1. Calm down first
When you realize that your girlfriend is angry and refuses to answer your call When doing so, the first thing to do is to stay calm. Don't panic or rush as this may make the situation worse. Give yourself some time to calm down and make sure you can communicate with her in a calm and rational manner.
2. Understand her feelings
Before calling, try to put yourself in her shoes and understand why she is angry. Try to recall recent events and identify possible causes of her anger. Doing this can help you better understand how she's feeling and show acknowledgment and understanding of her feelings over the phone.
3. Send a warm text message
Before calling, send a warm text message to express your care and apology to her. In the text message, communicate your wishes to her using concise and sincere language and express your hope that the problem can be resolved. Doing this will make her feel that you care and are sincere.
4. Pick the right time
Before you call, make sure you pick a good time. Don't interrupt her when she's angry or down, as this may exacerbate her resentment. Instead, wait for a calmer and more relaxed moment where she'll be more likely to answer your call and want to talk to you.
5. Express apology and understanding
When she answers the phone, first express that you are sorry for the reason for her anger and that you understand how she feels. Avoid arguments or accusations, and instead talk to her in a gentle and respectful manner. Tell her you're willing to listen to her thoughts and feelings and find ways to solve the problem together.
6. Provide solutions
On the phone, provide some suggestions or solutions to solve the problem. Come up with some feasible and reasonable solutions based on your previous understanding of her feelings. At the same time, she should also be given enough space and time to express her own opinions and suggestions. Through cooperation and communication, find a solution acceptable to both parties.
7. Express love and concern
Before the call ends, express your love and concern for her. Tell her you value the relationship and are willing to put in the work to solve the problem. Let her feel that you are sincere and committed, and that you value this relationship.
It’s not easy to answer your phone when your girlfriend is angry. But by staying calm, understanding her feelings, sending warm texts, choosing the right time, expressing apology and understanding, offering solutions, and expressing love and concern, you can increase your chances of successfully coaxing her into answering the phone and ultimately resolving the problem.
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