In the process of a blind date, there will be a big difference in the thinking of men and women. Boys feel that it is okay to meet on a blind date and continue to have contact, and the relationship is confirmed, while girls may feel that more time is needed to contact and understand each other before they can acquiesce in the relationship. Because of the differences in thinking between men and women, there are many issues surrounding how a blind date is considered a default relationship. How to establish a romantic relationship with a girl on a blind date?
1. Confess your love to girls on a blind date
Many men don’t understand that girls they meet on a blind date also need to be chased and confessed. If this is not done, the girl's vanity will cause trouble and her self-esteem will be frustrated, which will make her feel very shameless.
So, if you feel that the girl you are dating has a crush on you, and her words and deeds also support this fact, but you haven’t confirmed your relationship yet, then you should boldly confess your feelings and pursue her boldly. Confession and pursuit in this scenario are much less difficult than free love, and it is even just a show. But despite this, you still need to make your actions look sincere and make her feel respected and cherished. This kind of sincerity expressed after a blind date will really benefit girls. This will make her think that you really have her at the forefront of your mind.
In today's fast-paced age of blind dates, it is definitely no longer the case that two people just meet and feel okay, then rush towards the goal of getting married. That's the pattern. In fact, meeting the two of them is just the first step in a long journey of thousands of miles. Being able to continue chatting is a good start. Other than that, just be normal. In addition, the sense of ritual is very important, and confession is also a ritual. Ceremony is not just a ceremony, but also a contract signed with heaven, earth, and gods. “I do” is not just for marriage proposals. In fact, when two people choose to come together, this process is really accompanied by countless "I dos" that are either spoken or unspoken. "I do" is courage, responsibility, and heroic pride.
2. Get along more and get together slowly
After most girls go on a blind date, they will continue to get to know the boy if they think there is nothing wrong with him, and agree to meet the boy, make dinner appointments, etc., because they want to be with him. Boys learn more. Now that a girl is willing to keep in touch with you, spend more time with her. In the process, let the girl slowly adapt to you and get used to your presence. When you have been together for a long time, you will be together in a comfortable relationship without confirming the relationship. Of course, it is not ruled out that as you slowly get along, the girl you are dating will gradually become disappointed with you and break up. This is your own problem.
Although the men and women who go on a blind date sincerely want to fall in love and go on a blind date for the purpose of getting married, a blind date confirms the relationship. Still can't rush. Guys, don’t complain that the girl on a blind date is reluctant to confirm the relationship. This is not only a responsibility to the girl, but also a kind of protection for yourself. Learn more and then acquiesce.The relationship is always right.
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