If you want a blind date to be successful, chatting after exchanging contact information is very important, because only by chatting well can you effectively enhance your relationship. So how do you chat and cultivate your relationship with your blind date?
How to chat with your date? Chatting with a blind date to develop feelings?
1. Help-seeking chat
When you don’t know what to talk about, take the initiative to ask the other person something Asking for help, this method of chatting can effectively alleviate the cold situation, because on the one hand, out of politeness, the other party will definitely reply, and on the other hand, by asking for help, you make the other party feel that you trust him and are willing Accept his opinion, thereby improving the other person's favorable impression of you.
2. Chat about things in life
Chat about things in each other’s lives and care about each other’s living conditions. This will help bring each other closer, such as reminding her When the weather is cold, you should pay attention to wearing more clothes, or ask him not to have too much pressure at work, etc. This kind of chat atmosphere will not create a sense of restraint and depression, and will help to warm up each other's feelings.
3. Pay attention to the dynamics of the friend circle of the blind date
WeChat’s circle of friends can map a person’s Many characteristics, such as living habits, hobbies and personal aesthetics, etc., so before chatting, browse the other party’s circle of friends to get to know them in advance.
For example, if you find that one of the other person’s recent updates is some pictures taken while traveling, then you can introduce the topic from travel when chatting with the other person.
4. Make an invitation
When you and her have become familiar with each other after getting along with each other for a few days and are no longer as strangers as before, you can consider extending an invitation to her. The other party extended an invitation. First take the initiative to express your good feelings to the other person, and then show your wish for further development in reality. As long as the other person does not hate you, they will generally be happy to accept the invitation.
5. End the conversation at the right time
Chatting does not mean that the longer the chat, the better. Time-consuming communication will definitely cause psychological fatigue, so you must learn to choose the right time to end the chat. This will not only cause psychological fatigue, but also help to preserve the relationship between each other. Just imagine that the other party is chatting with you passionately. When you tell him that you have something to do temporarily and you will talk about it later, then the other person may be disappointed, but more than disappointment, you must be looking forward to chatting with you next time.
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