Many boys are pursuing girls. If they hear a girl say she doesn’t want to fall in love, they may subconsciously think that the girl doesn’t like them, and the girl just uses the excuse of not wanting to fall in love to politely refuse. But if a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love but takes the initiative to chat with you, what does she mean?
1. Girls are green tea
Some girls say they don’t want to fall in love, but in fact they take the initiative to come to you and flirt with you. In fact, they just want to hang you. This is Typical green tea performance. So how to tell if a girl is really green tea? The tried-and-true physical contact cannot fool anyone.
If a girl gives you a serious warning when facing physical contact with you: She doesn’t like it or takes the opportunity to avoid it, then in your heart There is a bottom. Try a few more times (serious girls will automatically log off because they don't like it). Girls who reject your physical contact but still chat with you may be real green tea.
Because Green Tea sometimes uses any means to gain material or life benefits (that is, to trick hormonal boys into voluntary labor), or even just to find an emotional trash can to receive her negative output. If you are refused to take advantage of you, start to whet her appetite and ignore her for a period of time. They will show their perseverance, and after a while, they will come to chat with you as if nothing has happened to take advantage of you and promote feelings.
2. Girls talk duplicity
In fact, some girls have not yet decided whether to fall in love or not. When faced with your pursuit, they will be a little at a loss and say it impulsively. Words like "I don't want to fall in love." But after the girl said this, she actually regretted it, but she was embarrassed to tell you that she also had a crush on you. In order not to lose you completely, a girl will start her little trick: take the initiative to chat with you to make you feel that there is still drama between you. After you take the initiative, the girl's attitude towards you will not be so repulsive and it will develop slowly. You can be together.
So when girls say they don’t want to fall in love, boys, don’t apply your way of thinking and chatting to girls. I think that when a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love, she really doesn’t want to fall in love.
The steps in the development of our relationship with girls are: strangers, friends, ambiguities, lovers. The relationship is gradually determined after getting to know, dating, and moving in. If a girl can take the initiative to chat with you, it means that she has interest in you. I have a good impression, but this kind of good impression does not mean that I like you, and it may also fall into the friendship zone, so you can't express your love casually.
If you like a girl, pursue it boldly, clarify the order of positioning the relationship, understand the other person’s emotional needs during chatting and dating, show your attraction, and upgrade the relationship.
3. Girls don’t like you
When some girls say they don’t want to fall in love, it’s not because they really don’t want to fall in love, but because they don’t like you and don’t want to talk to you. Maybe she would like to fall in love with another person she likes. . In this case, the girl takes the initiative to chat with you, maybe because she thinks you are a friend with whom she can continue to chat, and she happens to be short of someone to chat with, so she chooses to take the initiative to chat with you. If you push the chat content in an ambiguous direction, she will get angry or cut off contact.
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