Many boys feel that introverted girls are difficult to pursue. No matter how hard they try to take the initiative, the other party's response is very cold. When such a situation occurs, it's not that the other party is difficult to chase, but that your method is not correct. So how to chase an introverted girl?
1. Be friends first
British psychologist Ai In Senke's personality theory, the typical introverted personality is described as: Quiet, likes to be alone, keeps a certain distance from others (except close friends), does not like stimulation, and is emotionally stable.
In other words, they are wary of other people, but they will be open to their friends~
Due to their personality, she will definitely reject a reckless suitor, but You will never reject a passionate friend.
Therefore, when pursuing such a girl, you must first position the relationship as a "friend" and don't say that you like her and pursue her right away. Let her lower her defensiveness so that she can better contact her further.
Moreover, if you don’t mention “chasing” at all, she will have no chance to “reject” you - how can she reject you if you don’t pursue her?
Therefore, when dealing with introverted girls, there are The best way to flirt is when you don't tease.
2. Caring
Girls are simply irresistible to caring boys, and introverted girls are even more attracted to them. It's very obvious, especially when you see your loving eyes and demeanor towards children or animals.
So if you want to attract girls, take more photos with animals or children. It's a great way to attract girls by showing your love.
3. Like sports
Boys who like sports are full of positive sunshine and a life-loving temperament. This kind of temperament is the most attractive to introverted girls, which is why there are so many The reason why girls fall in love with fitness instructors.
If you like to exercise, that’s even better. If you don’t exercise often, go to the gym more or take some photos of you exercising and show them to your circle of friends, which will also attract girls. gaze.
4. Good looks
Boys love beautiful women, and girls also like handsome boys. Compared with some that are not available, improving appearance is also one of the essential skills for flirting with girls.
When talking about this, some boys will say: Looks are innate, this technique is making things difficult for me.
In fact, what we call good looks is not innate. If you are not confident about your appearance, then we can improve our image and temperament by dressing up.
Just like Huang Bo, longHe doesn't look very good, but once he changes his clothes, he is still a handsome man who can fascinate Lin Chiling.
5. Possess a certain skill
When you are good at a certain aspect, then Not only in life, but also among the opposite sex, it is also a very competitive characteristic.
For example, if you are good at cooking, for an introverted girl, she usually has less contact with people, but has a lot of contact with food, so food is something she can never let down. If you can show it more It's so easy to attract her by showing off your cooking skills.
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