After the blind date is over, if you cannot judge whether there is a possibility of progress between you and the girl, then it will be difficult for you to establish a relationship with the girl on the blind date. Judge the signs of failure after a blind date, and see the girl's attitude towards you from the details.
1. If you don’t send a message, she will never pay attention to you
The blind date between two people is through both the man and the woman. You agreed after meeting. This was a communication based on equality. But what troubles you is that, apart from having a smooth conversation at the beginning, she became a "busy person" in the days to come.
If you ignore her, then she will be your die-hard zombie friend on WeChat and will never contact you for ten thousand years. And if you contact her, what you will get is "I'm going to take a shower and we'll chat later", "I still have something to do, so we'll chat when I have time", "I'm very busy now, we'll chat later", and then, While you are waiting impatiently for her to reply to you, she has already fallen asleep.
Why does this happen?
Some girls may be more reserved and shy, but the vast majority of girls have a very common reason - they are not interested in you. Feel.
If they really like you even a little bit, they will not treat you as a passerby. If they have not contacted you for more than a month, then congratulations, you have won the lottery, and the reward is to remain single.
At this time, you really have no chance. Unless there is a bloody plot in which a hero saves a beauty, otherwise this matter will become a definite fact.
What you need to do at this time is not to be angry or frustrated, but to silently wish her to find her own happiness, and then completely disappear from her world. You are like two intersecting lines, somewhere. The points intersect and then drift apart.
2. Frequently play with mobile phones during blind dates
There is no doubt about the attractiveness of mobile phones, but if you continue to use them If you are always playing with your phone during a blind date, it can only mean two things: either you are also playing with your phone, or she has no feelings for you.
What is the most important thing in a blind date? Humor? Style? Or money?
No, there is a common topic. Boys like superman, girls like romantic, there are two kinds. Strangers with completely different personalities, the chance of chatting together is probably a little higher than winning the lottery.
Only your feet know whether the shoes fit properly. Wearing a pair of crappy shoes will only cause your feet to sprain.
3. Ignore you, but be enthusiastic and generous to others
During a blind date, girls A face is like ice and fire. Unfortunately, you occupy the ice.this side.
Normally, I have a lively chat with my friends, but once I’m alone with you, I can’t hold back a word for a long time. It’s obvious that the two of us have the same hobbies, but she never mentions it, as if she is deliberately avoiding it. Open this "minefield".
At this time, you should pay attention. This is a signal that girls are sending to you - I don't like you, so you should be sensible and go on your own.
From ancient times to the present, things like feelings cannot be measured by common sense. If two people can’t get along, neither party is at fault. It just means that you didn’t meet the right person at the right time. Don't be depressed, let yourself live a confident and fulfilling life, and the woman you are destined for will definitely appear by your side through all obstacles at a certain time.
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