In a boy’s mind, if he meets a girl he likes and confesses to him, then of course he will agree unconditionally. But some girls clearly like a boy, but they will refuse the boy's confession. This may be due to the girl's reserved mentality. She feels that if she agrees too quickly, the boy will not cherish her, and she is also afraid that the boy will think that she is a casual person. So if a girl tests a boy, how many times will he reject it? What if a boy decides whether a girl's rejection is a test or a real rejection?
1. Determine the seriousness of the confession
If a boy’s confession makes a girl think it is a joke, then rejection may be a test for the boy. If a boy expresses his love seriously, seriously, and puts a lot of thought into it, he can let girls see that he is sincere. If he rejects you, it may mean he doesn’t like you enough, so you don’t have to give up in a hurry. You can pursue her again, persist, and let him see that you really like her. If she is still unmoved, it means that it is really difficult for her to be attracted to you. Maybe you are not her type... In this case, Give up!
2. Look at girls’ subsequent behavior
The reason why some girls test boys is because they want to see Will a boy persist after being rejected, or she wants to know what the other person likes about her. Because she likes you, she may want to have a future with you, so she will test you to see how sincere you are to her, otherwise she is also afraid that you will not like her enough and will not be able to make it to the end. But since she chose to reject you at that time, she probably feels that her feelings for you are not that important. If she really likes you and can ignore your dedication and courage to express your love, and ignore your sadness after rejection, then she doesn't really like you.
And if a girl still chats with you ambiguously after rejecting you several times, she will also be devoted to you, and she will even take the initiative to make advances when you go on a date, then she may be testing you.
3. Look at the number and frequency of rejections by girls
If a girl refuses many times over a long period of time If you reject a boy, you will feel nothing at all. Of course, if you have to say that you have been rejected many times in a week, it is probably possible that you can slowly improve yourself and increase your attractiveness. But if it’s been several months since the first rejection and the last rejection, the girl basically has no feelings for you, so I advise you to give up. You can appear in front of her as a successful person one day in the future, but never expect that she will regret her decision to reject you. It's not that you're not good enough, it's not that you're not outstanding enough, it's just feelings. If you don't feel it, you don't feel it. I don't want to spend my life with you, that's all.
Of course, there is no definite answer to the question of how many times a girl has rejected a boy, and some girls do not just want to test a boy when they reject him, but also it's herI don’t know whether I love boys or not, so I subconsciously refuse. In this case, if boys can insist on contacting girls and let girls get to know you and get used to you, then girls will slowly accept you.
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