Generally speaking, if both men and women have a good impression of each other during the date, then the boy may be eager to continue to contact the girl, but what about the girl? She also responds enthusiastically to contact from boys. But there is a saying that after a date, there should be no contact for a short time. So why do men and women say that after a date, they should not contact each other for a short time? What's the reason?
1. The other person is busy
In fact, whether you are a boy or a girl, besides love, there are many things to be busy with in life, such as work, studies, and socializing. Some people may say, "No matter how busy you are, you still don't have time to send me a WeChat message." I can only say that this situation may actually exist. And just because you are on a date does not mean that you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and others have no obligation to report your daily life at any time!
If you don’t contact each other for a short time after a date, you can take the initiative to ask the other person if they are busy? I haven’t had time to keep in touch recently. Can we talk or meet again sometime? I suggest you don’t think too much about it, just contact the other person and make an appointment to ask. If you contact them when you should, but the other person doesn’t reply, then you have to live as you should. Keep looking when you should, and just wait for the other person to reply.
2. Feeling inappropriate
Sometimes girls chat well on social media, but it does not necessarily mean that they can maintain such a good impression after meeting and dating. Maybe the reason for not contacting you for a short period of time after the date is because the other person felt dissatisfied after the date, or they felt that they were not suitable for you. Or after a date, the other person may feel that you are different from what she imagined, so she wants to take some time to think about whether she likes you or not, and whether she should give up. Don't take the initiative to look for her at this time. If she wants to continue developing a relationship with you, she will take the initiative to look for you.
3. Fear of embarrassment
Some boys are interested in girls after dating, but when they see The girl didn't contact him after the next date. He felt that the girl might not be interested in him, and he didn't want to take the initiative to contact the girl for fear of embarrassing and disgusting her, so he simply stopped contacting her after the date.
Regarding this situation, what the editor wants to say is: It’s strange. If the other party doesn’t take the initiative to contact you after the date, can’t you take the initiative to contact her?
If you like her If so, then after the date you should be interested in her and her life. You will focus on her and take the initiative to ask about some of her situations to understand her better. He will also share interesting things around him with her, so as to attract her attention to him.
If you don’t like her, then why wait so hard for her to contact you? It shows that you still like her. The editor suggests that you canTake the initiative to contact her and communicate with her instead of waiting passively. Love must be in your own hands, right?
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