When you first meet a girl, the girl is often very enthusiastic because of the sense of mystery and freshness. However, after you have known each other for a while, if your chat is still boring, it will only make the girl's enthusiasm decrease and gradually change. Gotta be indifferent. So what should we do in this situation?
Many boys will be at a loss when they find that girls are not as enthusiastic as they were at the beginning. They start to cater to the girl and blindly please her. This is obviously wrong. This kind of behavior will only make girls become more and more indifferent. Let’s take a look at the correct way to deal with it:
1. Be yourself and establish a sense of connection in the chat
If we can’t change the current situation, instead of waiting anxiously for the girl’s response and fearing that the girl will reject us, we might as well be ourselves and continue to make jokes about girls. , of course, pay attention to humor not to suppress girls, but to recreate it in the chat to build attraction.
In fact, there are many humorous ways to chat here. Generally, the topic is started from three aspects: the girl herself, herself, and things related to you.
Because these three aspects are complementary to each other, if you only talk about girls, it may arouse girls' interest, but the focus of the chat has always been girls. If a girl doesn't want to talk to you, it's easy to run out of topics to talk about, or the girl keeps talking about her troubles, which becomes her emotional trash can.
Therefore, when chatting with a girl, in addition to talking about her, the topic must contain your own content, so that you can establish more connections, let the girl have a good impression of you, and build a good impression.
2. Increase the interactivity in chat
When chatting with girls, girls are curious I am willing to chat with you, but during the chat, the understanding between both parties deepened. Your chat is either about what you are doing or what I did today. The chat content is not relevant and has no interactive points of interest, making it easy for the chat to turn into a question and answer session.
In early chats with girls, more information is exchanged in order to increase conversation in future chats. When you are familiar with each other, you need to have in-depth discussions and interactions with girls, such as:
Boy: What are you doing? (a topic centered on her)
Girl: I Eating.
Boy: What to eat?
Girl: Hot pot.
Boy: Hot pot, I think the shabu-shabu tripe is the best.
Good at discovering key words in girls’ words. When girls talk about hot pot, you can tell girls your own opinions. If the other person is interested, the conversation will begin. If girls are not interested in this, we can also ask girls what they usually like to eat, and establish interaction in the chat, and the topics will naturally continue to flow.
In fact, it is quite common to chat with a girl very enthusiastically at the beginning and then become more and more indifferent. As long as we can bring the girl back based on her interests and hobbies Yes, but in this process, brothers must put away their sense of need and don't let girls feel that you are begging each other to chat.
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