We may have met a girl through a blind date and felt that she was a nice person and hoped to develop further with her. However, when the girl said that we should be friends first, it would make people confused about what she meant. So the girl on the blind date said to be friends first, do you still have a chance?
The first situation:
Confess your love as soon as you get started and tell the girl that you like her. If the girl replies that she wants to be friends first, it’s basically a good person card.
When two people first get to know each other, if you say that I like your personality and fall in love with you at first sight, the girl will feel offended. Although this may be a polite comment, it will make girls think you are arrogant and insincere.
The second situation:
The two people chatted happily when they met, but after switching to WeChat to chat, the girl behaved coldly and even politely. At this time, she said that she wanted to be friends, which was also a polite refusal.
Many people behave very casually when chatting, as if a girl is on a blind date with them and adds WeChat, which means that they almost like themselves. So he hurriedly approached her, hoping to enter her life. But girls are inherently wary of strangers of the opposite sex. If you act too eagerly, she will directly reject you.
The third situation:
The girl's personality is relatively slow, and making friends is already her biggest challenge. Giving in means that she is willing to give you a chance to get close to her.
Many boys will judge whether a girl is suitable for them through the first impression, but girls will judge whether a boy is suitable for them by getting along with her.
Maybe she has a good impression of you, but she is not sure whether it is suitable for her and wants to have more contact with you for a while. Of course, it cannot be ruled out that she was riding a donkey looking for a horse and wanted to find a few more spare tires.
When a girl talks about being friends, we can still continue to contact her, provided that you are sure you like her. There is nothing wrong with being friends. We can have more contact with girls in the name of friends, chat with her, ask her out on dates, and maybe we can become a regular girl in the end.
Wait until two people get to know each other a little better before discussing the topic of love. After all, when we are looking for a partner, we all want to find someone who knows everything about us, and many relationships start from friendship.
Of course, being friends does not mean doing nothing else. When two people come into contact, they must show more of their attraction. If a girl can't feel your charm as a person of the opposite sex, then you can only stop being friends.
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