Qixi Festival is the traditional Chinese Valentine's Day and a good time to express love. On this special day, giving red envelopes to girls has become a popular way. However, for boys, if they want red envelopes to express their feelings without appearing excessive, they need to master some skills.
1. The amount of the red envelope should be moderate
First of all, the amount of the red envelope should be moderate. If the amount is too small, it may be considered as not paying attention to the other party; if the amount is too much, it may make the girl feel stressed and embarrassed. Therefore, when choosing the amount of the red envelope, you can decide based on your financial strength and the degree of relationship with the girl.
If you are just starting to contact someone, it is recommended to choose a smaller amount, such as around 10 yuan or 20 yuan. If you already have a certain foundation for communication, you can consider increasing the amount appropriately. But no matter what, don’t go beyond what you can afford.
2. The form of the red envelope should be creative
In addition to the amount of the red envelope, the form of the red envelope is also very important. If you simply send a red envelope, girls may feel bored or even disappointed. Therefore, there are some creative ways to consider when choosing a red envelope format.
For example, you can put a greeting card made by yourself in the red envelope, or attach a warm message. You can also choose some special red envelope forms, such as heart-shaped red envelopes, star red envelopes, etc. This will not only express your feelings, but also let girls feel your intentions.
3. Red envelopes should be matched with gifts
In addition to red envelopes, giving gifts to girls is also a good choice. However, moderation also needs to be observed when choosing a gift. If the gift is too expensive, it may make the girl feel stressed and embarrassed; if the gift is too simple, it may be considered as not paying attention to the other person.
Therefore, when choosing a gift, you can decide according to the girl's preferences and her own financial strength. For example, you can send a bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates, a book, etc. This way you can express your feelings without going overboard.
4. Red envelopes should be paired with sincere blessings
Finally, when giving red envelopes to girls, they must be paired with sincere blessings. Whether it is a verbal blessing or a written blessing, you must express your sincerity and sincerity.
You can say some warm words, such as "May you be happy", "I hope we can always be together" and so on. You can also write a touching text to express your love and care for the girl.
Summary
Sending red envelopes to girls is a way to express your feelings, but if you want the red envelopes to express your feelings without appearing excessive, you need to master some skills. The amount of the red envelope should be moderate, the form of the red envelope should be creative, the red envelope should be paired with gifts, and the red envelope should be paired with sincere blessings. Only in this way can girls feel your intention and care.
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