As the saying goes, men are not bad and women are not in love. Chatting with girls and driving appropriately can help develop the relationship between you and her. But if you talk too freely, you can easily be considered a hooligan. So how should we grasp this scale?
Next, let’s take a look at some chatting and driving routines that can further your relationship with girls.
1. Pay attention to the relationship when chatting and driving
If you have just met someone or are not interested in you yet If a girl drives a car during a chat, she will only be considered a hooligan.
For example, a friend introduces you to a girl, and you have only known her for a day, and you ask her on WeChat: "What size do you like in boys..."
"Rogue."
p>Girls are very disgusted when men they don’t like come to chat with her and say some ambiguous and dirty words.
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Only if you and the girl meet the following conditions can you race in the chat:
1. The girl is interested in you (this must be true);
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2. Girls have a high degree of enthusiasm when they reply to you. They are not the kind who take every sentence seriously, or take a long time to reply to you;
3. Girls have been exposed before Privacy is given to you, such as height, weight, age, and especially relationship history.
Of course, even if a girl meets these conditions, you cannot drive too fast and ask them directly: "How many times have you had sex with your ex-boyfriend?" "How many postures have you unlocked?"
2. Chatting and driving should be guided slowly from the shallower to the deeper
Therefore, before driving, we can start with some common When we start talking about a topic, it is up to us to control the direction of the topic, pave the way step by step, and finally guide the topic to our ultimate goal-driving.
Give an example:
We learned that this girl is working out recently, so we can start the conversation from the topic of fitness.
For example, topics such as which fitness method is better for body shaping and how to eat during fitness to maintain fitness effects.
When a girl’s emotions are aroused by you, you can prepare to test her acceptance!
“I always work out at home, and I don’t know much about the scene in the gym. You Are all the men in it muscular and muscular?" (The foreshadowing begins.)
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In fact, at this time, no matter how she answers, whether there are a lot of muscular men inside, or only some people have muscles, we can all say that she has a good eye.
For example: "Tsk, not many students have muscles, but the coaches all have muscles."
"That's not bad, after all, you can feast your eyes on it Yes, let me ask a question."
"What question?"
"Have you ever tried to squeeze the coach's muscles?" (The test has begun, how the girl answers is the key. , her answer determines the scale in her heart)
If a girl says: "Don't dare." "How can this be done?" She is more likely to resist the dirty topic, then Change the topic, stop and continue.
If it is very bold, such as: "Haha, I have the heart but not the courage." "I tried it, it's not fun at all." If this is the answer, then it is OK.
Some brothers may want to ask, what should I do if a girl says: "They are all a bunch of fat nerds, and I don't see any of them with muscles." She doesn't play according to the routine?
Very simple: "It seems that the coaches there are not as good as me as a wild guy. Let me show you my fitness results." Use this as an excuse to show off your muscles, and the problem will be solved.
From this example we can see how important the ability to lead the topic is! Only with this ability can girls follow your pace and go deeper step by step. We are good at controlling the direction of the topic. Even if the girls don't follow the routine, we can still bring the topic back to our intended purpose.
If you want to talk to girls better, this ability is essential for brothers.
In addition, humorous men will also take advantage of it. If you know how to be humorous, you will be more natural and interesting in advancing the topic. If you are not good at humor, your topic changes will be much blunter.
3. You can use truth or dare when chatting and driving
If you want to drive, in addition to the above-mentioned pure chatting , there is another excellent way: truth or dare
For example, playing truth or dare in bars and KTVs. Everyone should agree with such occasions. It is very easy to lead the atmosphere in this kind of environment. ambiguous.
So what should be done specifically?
First of all, it is best not to play this game alone with her, as this will make your purpose too strong. Make an appointment with a few Gathering with friends is the best solution.
Secondly, state the scale of the game in advance before playing: “Everyone here is a young person, and young people should have the enthusiasm of young people.Love, so if you want to play, play big! You should be mentally prepared. ”
In the end, we and our wingman friends will answer some relatively large-scale questions first to bring up the rhythm of the game, so that when the girl’s turn comes, she will be mentally prepared. Avoid rejection. (If unfortunately she loses first, then ask her some lighter questions first, and we still have to wait for us to "get deeper" before we ask the girl more questions.)
In fact, WeChat You can also play sieve with QQ. Everyone should know this. If you lose, tell the truth, but this method requires you to establish a deeper relationship with the girl.
4. Chatting with girls. Precautions when driving
Although chatting with girls while driving can attract girls, you must also be careful about overturning the car. Therefore, there are two things you need to pay attention to:
The first thing is before we enter. After such a topic, the girl may suddenly show rejection while chatting.
This is because the girl is relatively reserved, and may have temporarily developed a submissive mentality due to our leader and continued chatting with us. , after she reacts, she finds that she is not able to accept such a topic.
You must end the topic at this time, and don’t pester her to continue the conversation.
See. It is not your loss but your gain to take the initiative to end dirty topics when a girl is not in the right mood. When a girl sees that you know how to advance and retreat, and respect her, such a man is called a man with emotional intelligence and gentlemanly demeanor!
The second thing is don’t think that if you talk to a girl about this, she will definitely accept having an intimate relationship with you, and then touch her when you meet her. Don’t do such a thing easily!
It's one thing for a girl to talk to you about these things, but it's another thing in reality. There's a big difference between the two. After all, you can't get pregnant when you're having sex... A girl's willingness to talk to you about ambiguous content can only prove her feelings for you. Yes, I don’t treat you as an outsider, but if I am willing to have a relationship with you, that can only happen after I completely accept everything about you.
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