There are more or less three or five friends around us. Although some friends don’t keep in touch with each other, we can chat at any time as long as we say hello. But some girls usually live alone and have no best friends or friends around them. Is it normal for girls without friends? Is such a girl worth pursuing?
Is it normal for girls to have no friends?
1. Girls’ friendships are very fragile
We often hear about plastic besties, which refers to the friendship between girls. Boys, on the other hand, are talking about close buddies, brothers. It sounds like this friendship is much stronger than that of girls. But many friendships between girls are very fragile! I'm not saying all of them, but a certain proportion.
Because of the nature of girls, girls will be more emotionally sensitive. Maybe they will get angry if they say one or two wrong words. If they are not satisfied with one or two small things, there will be rifts. If boys have conflicts and hate each other, they may speak out. A fight and a fight will be the end of it, and girls can easily get sulky inside. At the same time, many girls’ friendships require relatively frequent communication and contact over a long period of time, such as making appointments every now and then to go shopping, eating and hanging out, sharing some minor or even trivial things every day, and some girls are more independent in character, especially I am quite busy after work and don’t have much time to socialize. Over time, the former friends and best friends will gradually fade away. This kind of girl just gradually changes channels with her former best friends and friends as she grows up.
2. Plastic sisterhood among girls
Also, under the brainwashing of current businesses, vanity is strong A large proportion of girls are prone to comparison and jealousy. You see, those girls who are clamoring to buy this or that often say that my friends and best friends have them, so I want them too, otherwise they will be looked down upon. Friendship is so fragile that if you don't buy xxx, you will be looked down upon. Is this still friendship? This kind of best friend is just a plastic sister who takes pictures together to compare with each other.
If it’s just like this, it’s actually okay, at least it won’t do you any harm, but what’s even more terrifying is that you gave her a hand when she was in trouble, and you thought you had a relationship with her. That's fine, but she doesn't really consider you a friend. You talk to her and tell her your secrets, and she turns around and sells you out and tells your secrets as a joke to others. If you find out and question him, she will laugh at you for being stupid, and even think that your friends and boyfriends are good, so they will directly take advantage of the situation. Therefore, there was a popular saying in the past, to prevent fire, theft, and girlfriends. This is probably not a small proportion.
To sum up, in fact, it is normal for girls to have no friends or besties, because it is very difficult to meet a friend who has the same three views and the same hobbies and can treat you sincerely and never fall out of love in your life. It is probably as difficult as meeting a friend The ratio of true love is about the same. Instead of meeting the plastic sisters above, it is better for girls to be alone and comfortable.
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