There is a big difference in the thinking of men and women. Many boys and girls always chat with their buddies, and they end up chatting to death within two sentences. So how to avoid this situation when chatting with girls?
1. Change the normal thinking of chatting
I believe that many boys, in order to show girls that they are gentlemen, polite and considerately caring, always focus on girls during chats. They are polite and polite, but the more serious the chat becomes, the less likely it is to continue. Instead, they will talk about something playful and unexpected. The more we talked about the topic, the more excited we became.
In fact, this is the difference between the logic of normal chat and abnormal chat. Those playful and unexpected topics actually use this principle to prevent girls from guessing your thoughts during chat and make her interested in you. generate interest.
How to use it when chatting with girls?
If you want to use it when chatting with girls, one very important point is to keep your own humor, otherwise when the girl expresses affection for you You don’t know what to do, for example:
Girl: Did you know many beautiful girls before?
Boy: Okay, no
Such an answer seems normal, but it also makes the subsequent chat awkward. When faced with similar inquiries from girls, you can answer like this:
Are you indirectly praising yourself? Haha
Haha, it’s just so-so, plus the girls you know are almost as big as a playground
A pretty girl? Let me think about it? It seems like you are the only one
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2. Emotion-led chat
Girls are generally animals dominated by emotions. When girls chat, even if they are right The event itself is not of interest, but if the emotions match it, she will be happy to continue chatting with you.
After establishing a suitable chatting atmosphere with a girl, you can extend the topic and direct the girl’s emotions to your outlook, your personal charm or your personal story, so that she can become interested in you and be willing to talk to you. I will have more interactions with you in the future. For example:
Girl: I look at your photo, you look so young. How old are you this year?
Boy: I just look young, but in fact I am xx years old.
When faced with a girl’s inquiry, you directly told the girl the answer without emotionally interacting with the girl. You chatted to death about the topic that the girl proposed. Doing so can easily discourage girls from chatting. Positivity.
The correct approach is to grasp the girl’s interest in you and extend it, and reply to her like this:
How old do you think I am? Is there a reward for being right?
Seize girls’ emotional points and create a sense of mystery, attract girls to interact with you, guide girls to invest
Can’t you tell, do you believe it when I say I am 20?
Create doubts, guide girls to export value to you, guide girls Enter your chat frame
By the way, it will be my xx birthday in a few days. What gift are you going to give me?
Take the initiative to create a relaxed chat atmosphere and tease appropriately. Girls, use the topic of age to extend it to a new topic (gifts), change the topic, and have more interactions with girls.
3. Capture girls’ curiosity
Sometimes chatting with girls is like fishing, there are fish Only when you eat will you take the bait. The same goes for chatting with a girl. You can give her the conclusion first and then tell her the reason.
When chatting with a girl, you can state your conclusion first to arouse her curiosity, thereby guiding her to continue asking you questions, continue the topic, and express herself. For example:
Boy: I feel like you are like a kitten sometimes (give the girl a conclusion first to arouse her curiosity)
Girl: Why?
< p> Boy: Haha, do you really want to know? (Sell it, increase your curiosity)Girl: Are you going to tell me or not? If you don’t tell me, I’ll get angry (Arouse girls’ interest, mobilize Girls’ emotions)
Boys: I always don’t want to get up in the morning, and I always don’t want to sleep at night. Sometimes I am gentle but sometimes I am very irritable. Can you tell me whether you are a cute but arrogant little boy? Cat (stimulates girls’ emotions and appeases girls’ negative emotions)
Girls: Tsk, you are right, right?
Boys: You are right, I’ve been through it It took seven, seven, forty-nine days to calculate it (to make girls happy)
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