There is a famous saying in "3 Idiots": Don't chase success, pursue excellence, and success will come quietly. The same is true in love. You should not be too impatient when chasing girls, but you must know how to "self-improve." Finding a girlfriend is naturally easy. This is the issue of positivity in the love game.
When many boys chase girls, they hope that things will develop in the direction they want, so they are too proactive. Behaviors and emotions often do not match, which makes girls resist. Therefore, they should not be too proactive when chasing girls. .
Asymmetry
Before falling in love, being too proactive will make boys lower themselves, because Taking the initiative means pleasing the other person, and people with a slightly lower level of value will often please the other person and make the other person happy.
Therefore, there is the naive idea that many people have had - whoever confesses first will lose, because being too proactive in the eyes of many girls is the attitude of a pursuer, and she only It's better to do a good job of reviewing. It's obviously not wise to pursue this kind of inequality.
Irrational decision-making
Many boys fall into the desire for love and make many active pursuits The behavior of girls is even "out of line". This is precisely because boys are too motivated in love, which leads to them making irrational decisions in the process of chasing girls.
Such irrational decisions will make girls mistakenly think that boys are naive and frivolous, which will lead to certain prejudices that are difficult to change, although this is common in some bloody plots. love routine, but in real life, it is difficult to develop a relationship in this situation.
Girls’ willful capital
Of course, chasing girls requires pampering them, but some boys are very enthusiastic about love. Being too exaggerated and acting too proactively can lead to girls being spoiled unscrupulously and developing bad habits, such as: Be willful in everything, don't talk about her at all costs, once you say it, it will be your problem...
< p> Although initiative in love games can make girls feel deep love, being too proactive can become the root cause of love tragedy. Boys who take too much initiative can easily become the capital of girls' capriciousness, which is very detrimental to the long-term relationship.
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