Use the Aronson effect to praise girls, and they will never forget you.



How do you usually compliment a girl? Many boys may subconsciously praise a girl for being good-looking, virtuous, gentle and generous...but to be honest, your compliments won't make a girl remember you at all, and she may forget about it after hearing it. Let’s share how to use the Aronson effect to praise girls, so that they will never forget you.

What does the Aronson effect mean?

If you want the girl you like to come to you, brother, don’t even think about it. Are you worried that no girl will chase you? Look, if I praise you first and then in a positive way, will your mentality become more positive? In fact, this is a point brought about by the Aronson effect, which makes people prefer people and things that constantly praise and give positive things.

The above example also tells you that when chasing a girl, we can actually praise in a way that is first suppressed and then praised. The most important thing is to use praise as the purpose, and the mood must change. Only in this way can you weaken the girl's resistance to you and create the greatest sense of comfort.

How to use the Aronson effect to praise girls

If you look at the circle of friends of the girl you like, Well, if you look at the photos in her circle of friends, many people may just say, ah, she is good-looking. In fact, that’s okay, but you can’t let girls remember you, because the people who say she is good-looking may not. If there are many, it may be a bit of deliberate flattery, and many times girls will feel that you have ulterior motives if you give them some deliberate compliments. Then the first impression will not be good. If you don't notice, in the future Let alone have anything to do with girls.

So the correct way should be to start with a small talk. For example, in the above incident, one person said, Hey, why did you change your avatar? I thought I found the wrong person. Watch the chat. The record confirmed it was you. If you say this, a girl will feel that you care about her, and the need to pay attention to her is linked to her behavior, so we will rationalize the connection, which will achieve the effect of rationally weakening your motivation. If you catch what girls care about more, then girls will take these things to heart.

Of course, brothers must learn to draw inferences from one example to other cases. The process still requires topics that are particularly nutritious. So if there is no topic, Something nutritious, for example, are you here, have you eaten? Oh my God, are you familiar with this kind of scene? Maybe many people are subconsciously accustomed to it without knowing it, and then they find that girls really don’t have any special enthusiasm for them, and then they are quite bland, then Do you think girls will still come to you?