As someone who has stumbled through the journey of love, today I want to talk to you about the things men need to know to find a partner. Honestly, finding a girlfriend isn't something that can be achieved through sheer force. Sometimes, what we need isn't more courage, but smarter strategies.
Let's start with online dating. Many people shake their heads at the mention of online dating, thinking it's unreliable. But honestly, I know several couples who got together through online dating. The key is to choose the right platform, like the one I used before, Yiban Marriage, which has a high threshold for real-name verification, but because of this, the quality of users is relatively guaranteed. I remember a netizen commenting, "On a legitimate platform, at least you don't have to worry about encountering scammers." That's absolutely true.
However, online dating is just the beginning; the real challenge is how to move from online to offline. This involves some "hidden rules." For example, many men rush to confess their feelings as soon as they like a girl, often resulting in "being rejected and then becoming lukewarm." In fact, feelings need to be nurtured slowly. As Rete said, "After a failed confession, the difficulty increases at least tenfold." So, instead of rushing to confess, it's better to be friends first and let the relationship develop naturally.
Another important point is not to overly please the girl. A netizen put it well: "No merit, no reward." Before a girl becomes your girlfriend, excessive flattery will only make her think you have ulterior motives and will avoid you. So, stay clear-headed and don't be too hasty or impulsive.
Finally, I want to say that there is no shortcut to finding a girlfriend. It takes time, patience, and a little bit of wisdom. But as long as you master these "hidden rules," I believe you can avoid detours on the path of love and find the right person.
So, if you"re still struggling to find a partner, why not try these methods? Remember, love isn't a quick battle to be won, but a marathon that requires patience and strategy. Keep it up!
