I don’t know if you have ever experienced being ambiguous with a girl, but those who have experienced it must know how good it is when you are ambiguous with a girl, and how uncomfortable it is when a girl wants to take the initiative to end the ambiguity. The key is that you don’t even know the reason. have no idea. Let me share with you the reasons why girls want to end the ambiguity on their own initiative. It may be that you brought up your previous relationship, or you gave up on yourself during the ambiguity and liked to cross the line, so the girl wants to end the ambiguity.
The reasons why girls should take the initiative to end the ambiguity
1. You mentioned your last relationship
That’s it, whether you are having an affair with a girl or you are already in love with her, you don’t even mention your last relationship. Don't mention it after marriage, really, otherwise the quarrel won't stop. Then you may say, some guys really chase girls for a period of time, and girls are willing to have an affair with them, and then they are anxious to confirm the relationship with the girls. Then I thought, hey, let me compare my ex with the girl, or compare it with other people’s relationship experiences. I didn’t even bother to tell the girl, oh, you really like me, then when will you talk to her? What was different about my first time? In fact, these are really very purposeful, and these will make girls immediately lower their heads and want to block you on the spot and stop contacting you.
2. Give up yourself
There are some boys who think that since they are already ambiguous, it means they can work it out, and then they do what their boyfriends should do, but in the end It seemed to look good, and then I started to let myself go, even letting go of my self-esteem and principles. As a result, I slowly lost my charm in the process, and the vanity of girls gradually increased, and I felt, eh, I feel I should be a better match, but you gradually no longer deserve me, and then I abandon you, then you are very confused. Therefore, when we are chasing girls or falling in love, we should give ourselves a bottom line, a bottom line that cannot be touched.
3. Like to cross the line
No matter what stage of your ambiguity with a girl, remember not to cross the line. Because after all, you are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, and if you cross the line, you will easily be resented by girls. Just like when you place an order for takeout, your choice is satisfying, but you haven’t tasted the real taste, so it’s still a little bit off. The most important thing is that you will let the scumbag who has a lot of experience and doesn't like you take advantage of your loopholes. She may just enjoy the money of loving you and spend your money and your time. Then, you are not willing to follow. When you upgrade your relationship, you just linger in the fear of not being able to upgrade your relationship, right? So I hang you up, and then you feel very entangled. In a situation like this, you may need to work it out step by step. If you can't, you can come to me for help.
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