Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, but nowadays more and more people are disgusted with it. There are some reasons hidden behind this phenomenon, which can be mainly attributed to the following three points.
1. Lack of authenticity
During a blind date, it is difficult to truly show your true self. Both parties will deliberately package themselves and try to leave a good impression on the other party. This superficial falsehood often makes people feel uncomfortable and prevents them from truly understanding the other person's inner world and true personality.
Blind dates are usually just brief meetings and exchanges, and it is difficult to gain an in-depth understanding of the other party’s family background, interests and hobbies and other important information. This makes blind dates a blind decision that can easily lead to problems in subsequent relationships.
2. Stress and anxiety
The pressure and anxiety caused by blind dates are also one of the reasons why people dislike blind dates. In dating situations, people often feel judged and scrutinized, and need to bear the expectations and pressure of others. This tension can affect people's performance and judgment, making blind dates unnatural and uncomfortable.
Dating is often seen as a means of finding a marriage partner, which puts more pressure on people. For those hoping to get married as soon as possible, blind dates become a pressing task rather than a pleasurable experience.
3. Limited selection
Blind dates are usually conducted under the introduction of acquaintances or matchmakers. This means that the range of choices is limited. Sometimes, people may not be satisfied with the partner provided by the introducer, but still choose to participate in the blind date due to politeness or other reasons. In this case, blind dates often fail to achieve the expected results, further deepening people's aversion to blind dates.
In modern society, people’s social circles are becoming wider and wider, and they can get to know more people through various social platforms. In comparison, blind date seems too limited and traditional, unable to meet people's needs for diverse choices.
Modern people’s aversion to blind dates mainly stems from lack of authenticity, stress and anxiety, and limited choices. In order to change this phenomenon, we can try to innovate blind date methods, provide a more real and relaxed communication environment, and broaden the range of choices so that people can more freely choose a partner that suits them.
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