Sometimes we meet people who pursue themselves, but they are not the type we like. How should we deal with this situation? Let us discuss this issue next.
1. Respect each other’s feelings
First of all, we need to respect each other’s feelings. Although he is not your type, he is also an emotional person. If you go too far in saying no, you may hurt his psyche. Therefore, while rejecting him, you should pay attention to your tone and method and try not to hurt him.
2. Be honest with each other
Secondly, we need to be honest with each other. If you're sure you won't like him, tell him the truth. Don't give him any illusions or hopes. Otherwise, he will keep pestering you and making you feel uncomfortable.
3. Give affirmation and encouragement
Even if he is not your type, give him affirmation and encouragement. After all, he put in a lot of effort to pursue you. After rejecting him, you can appropriately praise his merits and encourage him to find someone more suitable for him.
4. Keep a distance
Finally, we need to keep a certain distance. If you have frequent contact with him, he may misunderstand you and think you have a crush on him. Therefore, after rejecting him, you can appropriately reduce your contact with him and let him understand your attitude.
The person who pursues us is not the type we like. In this case, we need to respect the other person's feelings, be honest with each other, give affirmation and encouragement, and keep a certain distance. Only in this way can we avoid hurting the other party and make ourselves live more comfortably.
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