Every parent hopes that their daughter can marry someone who can be trusted with her for life, so getting the approval of her girlfriend’s parents can be said to be a huge test. So what should you do if your girlfriend’s parents don’t agree?
What should I do if my girlfriend’s parents don’t agree with us being together?
1. Recommendations
There is a saying that goes like this, eat other people's mouth softly, and use other people's hands softly. This future mother-in-law is not an outsider, but before getting married, I can give her more gifts that will satisfy her, and it will be easier to negotiate a naked marriage when the time comes. Of course, gifts should be given with weight. Cheap and tasteless gifts are equivalent to giving them in vain, and have the adverse effect of disrespecting the other party.
When you go on a business trip, bring more specialties from other places for middle-aged and elderly people. Whenever you go to your mother-in-law’s house, it’s best not to go empty-handed. Buy some nutritional supplements like melatonin, or the wine that your father-in-law likes to drink. This allows your future parents-in-law to understand that you are a sensible child. Even if you get married, they will have some troubles about money that they can't solve, but they will be embarrassed to say no because they miss your usual kindness.
2. Say nice things
Women love to flatter, especially older women, especially menopausal women This is especially true for the mother-in-law. If you occasionally give her a nice word in front of her, praise her new hairstyle, and praise her good craftsmanship, they will be elated with joy. Don't act like a piece of wood in front of your future mother-in-law. Anyway, pick the topics the mother-in-law likes to talk about and say more nice things.
3. Do housework diligently
Every time after dinner at my mother-in-law’s house, I would do the dishes washing and mopping the floor with the enthusiasm of a fish eager to drink water. Come over, don't be afraid of embarrassment. A hard-working person is welcome everywhere, let alone entrusting their daughter to such a hard-working person. The girl's parents must be secretly happy that she has finally found someone who loves her.
4. Make a guarantee
Show your manly courage and sincerity and tell them confidently : If her daughter marries you, you will love her and take care of her for the rest of her life. Although you cannot give her good material conditions now, you are confident and capable of creating better material conditions for her.
Originally she didn’t really want to marry her daughter to you, but once she was moved by your sincere promise, she reluctantly agreed. The mother-in-law in "The Era of Naked Marriage" was so moved by her son-in-law Liu Yiyang that the subsequent plot of naked marriage came about.
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