I believe that many boys have experienced perfunctory behaviors such as "um", "oh" and "ok" from girls when chatting with girls. The reason why a girl exhibits these behaviors is not that she does not have time to reply, but that she has no time to reply. Because the straight male thinking of these boys makes the topic too boring and makes girls think you are uninteresting. Therefore, if you don’t want to be perfunctory by girls in the chat, you need to know how to get rid of your straight male thinking.
If we chat with girls with a straight male mentality, then we will always pay attention during the chat Put it on a girl, and then try to find out the reasons for her status or dissatisfaction through constant and rational questioning, and then solve the problem. The whole process completely ignores the girl's feelings and needs.
For example:
Such a straight man's chat cannot arouse girls' emotions at all, how can it make girls Should I continue chatting with you?
You must know that the core of chatting is to escalate flirting and even establish a relationship, that is, to continue flirting during the chat, constantly stimulating the girl’s sensibility and emotions, making her blush and heartbeat speeding up, and then she will I have feelings and fall in love with you quickly.
Let me share with you two chatting methods to get rid of straight male thinking:
1. "Emotional Law"
Principle: Girls are emotional animals and hate everything. If a boy uses rational chatting to pursue her, if you want to catch her, you have to use the emotional chatting method she likes, and use romantic and interesting emotional expressions to chat, so that you can hit the target, hit the soul, and make her fall in love with chatting with you: < /p>
Here is the use of emotional rules to skillfully lead girls into an emotional state and call each other "fool". This is called "feeling" chat!
2. "Love Code"
Principle: If only two people know a secret, then it is a secret between the two people. The relationship between the two will become closer. Love Code uses humor and foreshadowing to guide girls to take the initiative to say 5201314 (I love you forever).
Even if it is just a secret code, when a girl gets along with you, she will subconsciously activate the "like you" mode:
p>Having got rid of the straight male mentality of chatting, are you still afraid of not being able to find a girlfriend?