Two people will talk about a lot of things every day together, so that there are endless strategies on chat topics, so today we will not discuss what topics couples should chat about. The editor would like to discuss with you what should not be said between couples. Let’s take a look at some of the topics you know.
1. Predecessor
Although the person who appears first does have an advantage, this advantage is impossible has always existed. It's like you once had something you liked very much, but when you grew up, you found that it was no longer suitable for you. Years later, as long as I still mention it, I will still feel regretful, because after all, I loved it deeply, but that was also the past. So don't use your past to hurt your present, after all, you can't go back.
2. Continuously output negative energy
It is inevitable that you will encounter unpleasant things at work and in life, and you need to vent. This is normal. But if you keep balabala all day long, with a droopy face and sighs, your girl will leave with you over time.
The attraction between two people depends on your shining points and charm, rather than the continuous output of negative energy.
3. Deadly Questions
Do you love me or not?
Who is he?
What is going on between you? Relationship?
What did you do just now?
You must understand that the basis for two people to be together is trust and respect. If you can't give enough trust, how can you be happy?
4. Worrying about gains and losses
Actually, to be honest, everyone has a little worry about gains and losses. But it's pathological if you need to confirm to her every day whether she loves you or not.
The editor cannot guarantee that your relationship will not last very long, but I can say with certainty that both of you will be very tired.
Remember not to love your lover too much, but to have your own life. This will last long.
5. Always talking about other people’s girlfriends
Look at my roommate’s girlfriend How nice to him;
The Valentine's Day gift my roommate received was so touching;
Why can't you learn from others? In fact, when you said these words, Subconsciously, I am comparing myself with others. This kind of comparison not only hurts and belittles her, but also erodes her affection for you.
6. Talk about breaking up at will
As long as there are quarrels and conflicts, breaking up will be on the lips. No matter you do it intentionally or unintentionally, the speaker does not mean it, but the listener does it intentionally. If you say it casually too many times, she will definitely feel uncomfortable. Even if what you say is a joke. sheYou may feel that you don't pay enough attention to him and this relationship.
7. Revealing old scores
It is inevitable that mistakes will be made. As long as you know your mistakes and can correct them, it is not a big problem. But if you just go over old scores blindly, and then go over them again after a while, and this is an infinite cycle, she will only become more and more annoyed in the end, and the distance between you will become farther and farther.
8. Constantly denying and blaming her behavior or performance
Imagine if a friend kept complaining about you:
Your clothes don’t look good today. ;
Today’s hair is very oily;
Today’s combination is so strange;
………
If it looks like this Can you still get along happily with him? Similarly, if you deny your girlfriend like this every day, you can imagine the consequences.
So, remember it! If you want a sweet love, you must start with yourself. After you change these behaviors that hurt others and yourself, sweet love will naturally hit you. Hurry up Take action.
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