Girls generally have weak constitutions and are prone to colds. When a girl catches a cold, it is the easiest time for a boy to get into her heart. So how should we care at this time to appear emotionally intelligent?
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First of all, don’t stupidly tell girls: “Take medicine on time and drink more hot water.” You don’t need to repeat to her what a girl knows herself. You haven’t given her what she wants, and a girl won’t be stupid enough to ask you directly. She hopes you have a higher emotional intelligence. So you must care based on the relationship between you and the girl. At different stages, what method should you use to relate to each other?
1. First acquaintance stage
If you are just getting acquainted with a girl for the first time, you cannot show too much concern, otherwise it will only make the girl think that you have some intention to care about her. At this time, you only need to show some simple care and establish a sense of familiarity with the girl, such as:
"I heard you have a cold, are you feeling better?"
"On time Take medicine, I believe you will be fine soon”
“Remember to take medicine if you have a cold”
2. The friend stage
If you and your girl have passed the first acquaintance stage and are already familiar with each other, then your concern can be more specific, such as:
"Cold" Now, remember to drink some porridge at night."
"Don't delay if you have a cold. Go see a doctor."
"You must have caught a cold. Be careful when you rest at night."
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Or you can ask the girl how she feels: "How do you feel now? Do you have a fever?", "Is there anyone around to take care of you?", "Have you eaten?" These are more direct concerns.
3. Ambiguity stage
If you and the girl already have a mutual affection for each other and are in an ambiguous stage stage, then when she catches a cold, your relationship style can be in the direction of upgrading the relationship, such as:
"If there is anything you want to eat, I will bring it to you later"
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“I bought your favorite cherries and I’ll bring them to you after get off work so I can keep you company.”
“Would you like me to accompany you, or chat online for free? "Oh"
"Let me tell you, I can eat it when I have a cold. I really want to eat porridge. I know that there is a restaurant whose porridge is very good and is more effective against colds and colds. I will order it for you now. "A portion"
A girl is relatively helpless when she has a cold, and when she is helpless, she needs a pair of warm hands, a warm and powerful hug, and a word that is close to you. of comfort. In short, you need someone by your sidePeople, so instead of expressing concern in various languages, it is better to go to her side as much as possible.
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