Not all girls like glib boys, but certainly not all girls like them if they don’t know how to chat. So how can you be more attractive when chatting with girls at the beginning?
1. After the girl told us her name, we exchanged titles
You can say: I am very happy I know you, my name is xxx (name), you can also call me little brother
This sentence not only allows girls to understand our titles to fill the sense of familiarity, but also creates more possibilities for chatting. You can also test whether a girl can bark to judge whether she is interested in you; moreover, when a girl first comes into contact with us, she will subconsciously think that we are an interesting man, and she will slowly develop an interest in us. The desire to explore and keep talking.
2. If you want to know a girl’s age, use humorous guessing method
You can say: The girl should be 18~
Asking a girl’s age has always been a chat There are taboos in this. Asking directly will definitely arouse resentment, so we use humorous guesses to praise girls, and use a questioning tone, then the girl will be in a better mood to tell us what her real age is.
3. In the process of getting to know each other, what should you do when there is no topic?
You can say: I am a Libra What about you?
Occasionally asking questions is also a way to change the topic and start a new topic. But the topic must be chosen carefully, and zodiac signs are very good. At this time, most girls will tell us what the zodiac signs are. Let’s talk about it next: It is said that girls under the zodiac sign xx (girl constellation) are very good at cooking~ This is a guessing reply. If the girl says "I know a little bit", then you can continue the conversation with her about cooking. If the girl says "I don't know how", then you can change the direction and start by showing that you can cook. Something delicious, or if you are a foodie, you have to go in the opposite direction.
Most girls know and are interested in zodiac signs, so it is a good topic and has good extendibility; then this is a way to get closer, chat with humor, or show our value. Topic trend.
4. After understanding the basic information, we need to have a turning point in chatting to further understand our respective interests and hobbies
Based on In the above conversation, when talking about delicious food, you can say: Recently I have been wanting to go to Xiaolongkan to eat hot pot, but I have to hold back
First of all, it arouses the curiosity of girls. Girls will wonder why we need to hold back. live; secondly, the key point is to guide out your own interests and hobbies. For example, after a girl asks why, we can go on to say that she has been running and exercising recently, and controlWeight, I will soon realize my dream of eight-pack abs. In this way, girls can learn about our recent actions and hobbies, and gradually subconsciously realize that "we are men with life requirements", which will create a certain attraction to girls. This is also a sideways display of your value. . Next, we can ask girls what their hobbies are, and ultimately achieve a process of further understanding each other.
5. Under the premise of a certain degree of attraction, most girls will also ask us boys some questions
For example, girls will ask us "How old are you?"
There are two methods: the first is to directly tell girls their age; the second is to let us add some challenges and add some A sense of framework, such as replying: Guess it, and I will give you a mysterious reward if you guess it right. The girl may say: I don’t guess, or she may really guess. Suppose a girl says: I don’t guess.
Then we can answer: the age of a flower, or the age of a pillar in society. The principle is to add some modifications and hints, and avoid awkward chatting while giving girls a step down. Suppose the girl guesses, then we can reply: Actually, I am xx years old (age), and I will reward you with a little red flower; or, I will reward you with a moma. Rewards are actually a kind of stretching of relationships. If you are introduced by a friend and you are serious about dating, then it is more appropriate to say "little red flower". If it is a social software recognition
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