I believe that many people have heard the phrase "it's better to lack than to overspend", and there are also many friends around me who also have such a state of mind when it comes to relationships. After tracing the reason, I found that they all choose to avoid excessive consumption. They would rather lack than indulge, which made me start thinking, what kind of love do they want?
Maybe it’s us High-quality love is often talked about, so today I will talk to you about what kind of relationship can be called high-quality love. Let’s take a look at this article - the concept of high-quality love!</ p>
First of all, my own understanding is: "Love" comes from our "ability to love others."
First you can love yourself, deeply accept yourself, be willing to support and love yourself unconditionally, and then you can develop the ability to love others.
The essence of true love is to love a real person, accept the imperfection of the other person, and regard the other person as a real person as more important than one's own "fantasies", "expectations" and "principles".
The love felt by people who do not have the "ability to love" is mostly a matter of missing something, pathological dependence and immersion in fantasy. It is essentially an unconscious dopamine impulse, short-lived hallucination and disillusionment.
If you pursue perfection and indulge in your own fantasy script, you will not be able to see the real person, only the face of the other person. Love fantasy.
It is difficult for us to change ourselves, but we try to satisfy our fantasies about love by changing the other person. This kind of situation is just a psychological narcissistic love that fails to distinguish between fantasy and reality from beginning to end. , the other party is also a materialized carrier. If each other's true existence is not seen and respected, connection will not occur.
"Love" is a luxury product in the world. It is the physical and mental harmony between two people who have the ability to love.
Only with a mature mind and the ability to learn to love can one experience true love and experience love flowing between two real life individuals, with mutual respect, support, and freedom in the relationship of love. Here the spirit is nourished, the life experience is expanded, and each other stimulates creativity, potential and happiness.
The above is the high-quality view of love that the editor understands. If you don’t like it, don’t criticize it. I sincerely hope that everyone can find the person who is the right match. Come on~!
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