In fact, it has always been discouraged for boys to chase girls, because the purpose of chasing is too strong, and it is easy for girls to be wary of you. To attract a girl is to find a way to make the girl like you, then the subsequent relationship will be natural, and it will be a matter of course to establish a relationship with the girl. But how exactly should you attract girls? Let me share with you how to attract girls to like you?
1. Keep a distance from girls
What can attract girls? Unavailability, or a sense of distance. Is this where this sense of distance comes from? Gotta pretend. But this outfit has to be natural, not stiff. In order to let girls guess and expect something about you, it is a bit like what we usually call a sense of mystery. Only then will girls be interested in you and attracted to you.
If you have just come into contact with a girl, you will be like the big boy next door, talking about all kinds of things from the bottom of your heart. You feel that you are very sincere and open. But you can only be a good person in the hearts of girls, because the way you show girls is that you are a boring person. Once girls know your trump card, they will no longer be interested in you. Once a girl is no longer interested in you, it will be twice as difficult to pursue her again. This is also the reason why many boys find it difficult to woo girls.
2. Learn to push and pull
Attracting girls requires some sense of distance. Sometimes this sense of distance is You need to deliberately push the other person away. This is one of the reasons for the term “push-pull”. In the early stages of getting along between men and women, there will basically be a phenomenon: the more you know, the easier it is to have problems.
For example, on a first date, both parties are happy. That is because everyone is deliberately tense and hides some bad things, which makes it look beautiful. The same principle applies to attraction, you need to have reservations. Because you haven’t fully understood it yet, exposing yourself quickly will most likely cause problems.
Some boys are very good at chatting and can chat from early morning until dawn (yes, all day and night~), but this kind of chatting will only increase the risk in the early stage and will not play an attractive role, and basically It's counterproductive. The most critical issue is that once the other party is no longer interested in you, it will be difficult for you to reverse the relationship because the other party has already fully understood you. This is the most deadly.
Finally, let’s talk about the conclusion: If you want to attract a girl, then you and her should not chat in the early stages of getting along. too much. When dating, don't talk too much. Keep some backup and reserve items for “last ditch” efforts. Don't let girls see through it at a glance. This article has great reference significance for boys who think they are good at making friends and good at chatting. Sincerely.
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