As someone who considers themselves verbally challenged, I deeply understand the feeling of being at a loss in front of someone you like. Every time I want to express something, the words turn into "um... ah... that..." as soon as they reach my lips, making me wish I could disappear into the ground. However, through years of trials and errors, I've discovered a truth: love is not a debate competition; it doesn't require eloquence, sincerity is the ultimate weapon.
I remember once, a girl I had a crush on posted a status on her social media saying, "So tired today." I agonized over it for a long time and finally just replied, "Rest early." To my surprise, she initiated a conversation with me, saying it was the warmest response she had received. You see, sometimes a simple sentence can touch someone's heart more than a lengthy discourse.
When it comes to listening, I believe it"s a major advantage for those of us who are not good with words. Because we are not articulate, we are better at quietly listening to the other person. Once, while chatting with a girl I liked, she talked for two whole hours, and I just listened attentively, nodding occasionally. Later, she told me it was the most comfortable chat she had ever had. You see, sometimes not speaking can actually be a plus.
As for showing charm, I think everyone has their own shining points. For example, although I"m not good with words, I'm particularly good at photography. Once, I went out with a girl I liked and took a set of beautiful photos of her. She was so happy that she even asked me out again. So, instead of worrying about not being able to speak well, think about what you're good at.
Speaking of shared experiences, I have a friend who is particularly interesting. His way of pursuing his girlfriend was to take her to various interesting places, like a 24-hour bookstore late at night, a morning market at dawn, and even running a marathon together. Now they have been married for three years, and every time they talk about these experiences, they can't stop laughing. You see, sometimes shared experiences are more effective than a thousand sweet nothings.
Finally, I want to say that love really can"t be rushed. Like planting flowers, it takes time and patience. I've seen too many cases where people ruined relationships by rushing to confess. Instead of rushing to define the relationship, it's better to slowly cultivate feelings. As a friend of mine said, "Love is not a sprint; it's a marathon."
So, my verbally challenged brothers and sisters, don't lose heart. Love is not a speech contest; sincerity is the ultimate weapon. Remember, someone who truly likes you won't leave you just because you can't speak beautifully. On the contrary, your sincerity and thoughtfulness will become the most touching aspects. Keep going, and believe that you will find someone who understands you!
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