It is undeniable that many relationships are now expressed through chatting. Although it seems much simpler than before, it is really difficult for friends who are not good at chatting. But we can’t give up just because it’s difficult, we can try to change it, so that we won’t miss it again and again because of various reasons! So quickly follow me to learn how to chat with girls who have just added WeChat!
1. The topic you want to talk about should be something that girls are interested in. If you don’t know what to talk about, just let it be. But remember that your reply must be something the girl can catch, not a general question.
2. Because we know too little about the one-time relationship, the WeChat chat may just mean good morning and good evening. What needs to be noted is: good night must not be missing. Most girls do not object to boys saying good night. , you can be more playful, add an emoticon like good night, don’t use greasy expressions or intimate expressions;
Be sure to remember to say a few more words when sending good morning, otherwise it will be like a mechanical greeting, for example :
Good morning~ It’s sunny here today and very warm. Where are you?
Have you eaten? is a common question. Be sure to remember it when asking this. Say a few more words, for example:
Have you eaten? What did I eat today? It was very delicious. What about you?
If the other party says they haven’t eaten, you can ask if they want to eat. What is about to be eaten? If the other party says what they have eaten, you can continue to delve deeper, but be careful to stop it in moderation. If the other party does not want to talk anymore, change the topic, because if the other party is not very interested in you, they will find it boring to talk about it.
But if the other party is having a great time chatting, and they can reply almost instantly, they can talk about food in more depth and then talk about more topics to deepen mutual understanding, increase mutual familiarity, and gain more goodwill.
3. Check out a girl’s circle of friends to know her preferences and better understand her interests. Yes, this is too many examples, but if you understand her preferences and chat with her, it will usually not be a surprise. No matter how you chat, it is basically ok as long as you don't be too straight and don't make the conversation boring.
4. Chatting is mutual, and it cannot be all about you blindly trying to please or putting in all your effort. But you should pay attention to understand more about the messages sent by girls. At the same time, pay attention to the humor of the language when answering the message, and don't be too rigid. For example, if the other party says that I gathered a crowd to play cards with my family today, don't report me. If you say no at this time, I won't be able to report you. It seemed very boring and did not give the girls a chance to continue chatting. To put it another way, for example, you can say, haha, remember to tell me if you win money~!
5. Chatting is also a time to show off your own strengths, so that girls canGet more interested in you. There is always something you are good at or something that interests her, and these need to be highlighted during the chat.
For example, if you know how to cook, you can continue to talk about whether you have eaten or not. You can say, what is my favorite food, and I can’t think of any other way to cook. I will do it when the time comes.
For another example, if she is interested in fitness and you happen to like fitness, then you can highlight in the chat that you have been working out for a long time and you like fitness very much.
If it’s a festival, this is a great opportunity for those who are adding fuel to the flames! There are too many details about this, so I won’t go into it for now.
Some of the things mentioned above are more detailed and some are more general, and they all vary from person to person. Let’s list these for now. I hope every boy will not miss it~!
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