Will frequent chatting lead to love? This question has been on people's minds for many years. Some people think that long-term chatting means psychological and emotional cooperation, which may develop into love later; while some people think that frequent chatting only shows that each other has a high degree of matching of words, and is only a factor in the emergence of love. An illusion. So, from what aspects should we judge this issue?
Communication channels
According to surveys, modern people use social software or communication tools in their work and life Chatting with friends or colleagues has become a daily habit, and frequent chatting is accompanied by a sense of trust. If for some reason, one of the parties no longer responds to messages, the other party will feel worried. This situation often occurs between friends or colleagues, but if it occurs between opposite sexes and frequent chatting, there may be the possibility of developing feelings. At this time, communication channels become a better criterion. If you are limited to chatting with friends on social software, it may be difficult to create love; but if you chat through a private mobile phone or WeChat, frequent communication will appear particularly "ambiguous."
Chat topics
In addition to communication channels, chat topics are also critical. If two people talk about a lot of trivial or boring topics at a loss, and there will be awkward silences from time to time, then basically they will not like each other. But if the chat topic involves larger topics such as life, ideals, opinions, etc., is closely related, and there are often differences in the process, then the two people will explore each other's psychology, thereby establishing a deeper spiritual interaction. This way, thoughts of love can arise even without dating or contact.
Communication time
Chat time also plays a big role in the development of relationships. Some people recommend being online 24 hours a day and having conversations with the other party, but this wastes a lot of time and can easily lead to fatigue. On the contrary, if two people can chat until about ten o'clock in the evening, and can come to each other again the next time they have a chance, then the distance between each other will gradually shorten. In addition, two people can temporarily postpone other major tasks and appointments in order to chat with each other. If you just pause for a period of time, the influencing factors in work and life can still cover up the past.
Summary
To sum up, frequent chatting cannot be used as data to judge whether there is love or not. The judgment is based on chat topics, dating time and other circumstances. Of course, if two people truly love each other, those data won't matter, because their hearts are already highly compatible with each other.
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