Speaking of girls’ subtext, I guess many boys have something to say, such as girls saying it’s okay, sleeping, casual, not angry, are you there... These seemingly casual words are actually girls’ subtext. Pay attention and step on the trap. Let me share with you a collection of girls’ subtexts and why boys don’t understand girls’ subtexts?
1. Analysis of girls’ subtext
There are so many subtexts for girls that I can’t finish them in three days and three nights. Here is an analysis of the common subtexts of girls in institutions:
"Chasing too hard, there is no room" = I don’t like you but I don’t hate you either. Let’s raise a fish first and see if there is room for development in the future.
"You are a really nice person, I regard you as my best friend" = I don't like you, but I can keep in touch and look for you when I need you.
"I don't want to fall in love now" = I don't want to fall in love with you now.
"I am relatively slow to warm up" = I just don't have feelings for you, I really like you taking the initiative to the extreme.
2. Why do boys not understand girls’ subtext?
In most cases, girls do not Like boys, she is straightforward and speaks her mind. Most of the time, she uses a subtle excuse (what we commonly call subtext) to let you understand what she wants to express, and why.
Because girls are inherently emotional animals, while boys are rational animals. Boys won't consider your feelings so much and will solve the problem straightforwardly. Girls rely on feelings. She won't think what you say is illogical or true. She only cares about whether what you say can make her happy.
Girls subjectively use "feelings" when receiving information, and they will also subjectively use feelings to express themselves. She won't tell you directly that she doesn't like you, but will find an excuse to say it sideways to make you understand.
Therefore, many brothers who are in love or chasing girls have encountered this problem: If you have anything to say, just say it! Don't make me guess, and don't say weird words, I can't understand them either. Isn't that just like that? The natural thinking patterns of boys and girls are different, which will definitely cause such errors.
Girls - rely on feelings
Boys - rely on factual reasoning
So I say girls will say a lot of subtexts "I don't have time" and "I don't want to now" Just listen to the perfunctory nonsense like "falling in love" and "I won't take the initiative". If she really likes you, there won't be so many twists and turns. She will be more proactive than you.
Summary: The subtext of girls is actually caused by the different personalities of men and women. If boys want to understand the subtext of girls, they have to do more From the girl's point of viewIf you think about it carefully, you will find that it is not difficult at all to understand a girl's mind.
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