How to chat with a blind date who has just added WeChat



How to chat with a blind date who has just added WeChat

On the road to blind date, it is crucial to start a pleasant communication with the blind date who has just added WeChat. Here are some practical chat tips and strategies for you in detail.

Keep your opening remarks light and fun. Learning to introduce yourself is the key. Compared with a blunt "hello", a tone like "hi" can make girls put down their guard. For example, you can say: "My surname is Yang, just call me Xiao Yang, but remember to add the word handsome guy after it." Such an expression can make girls happy in an instant.

It is also a good choice to start with the details. When you first start communicating, because you are not familiar with each other yet, you might as well start with each other’s friend circle and nickname. For example, which city has she been to recently? You can mention your stories about that city, etc., to make the other person feel "empathy."

Making fun of yourself can sometimes have unexpected effects. When a girl teases you, use humor to resolve it. For example, if a girl says, "Are you still a boy if you don't want to treat me to a guest?", you can reply, "Wait a minute, let me see my ID card."

It is very important to praise the other person. But pay attention to the method. For example, first say "Why do you look different from the photo?" and when the other person is unhappy, add "You look much better than the photo!"

You can also use Some unique opening lines. For example, "I already took the initiative to add you, but you took the initiative", "It is necessary to strike up a conversation out of respect for my aesthetics", "It is better to go through the process and be together directly", etc. These opening remarks can quickly attract the other party's attention.

It should be based on pleasure, make the space together comfortable, and lead girls to have a sense of interaction. Showing off your humor can also reflect your ability to survive and make girls look forward to the future.

It is also a good way to start from the other party’s circle of friends. For example, by praising "The photos taken in your friend circle are great!" or by discovering that she is a foodie, starting with "Looking at your friend circle, I found that you are a foodie."

Both parties on a blind date may have common friends or familiar things. Talking about interesting things about getting along with friends can open up the conversation. Understand each other's interests, hobbies, living habits, etc., and find common topics. You can also share interesting things you have encountered to liven up the atmosphere. As a boy, you can introduce your basic situation appropriately, but you should pay attention to the method.

It is also important to arouse girls' emotions. Some teasing, pushing and pulling are good choices. For example, "Come, give her a kiss, it represents the upgrade of our revolutionary friendship", "Baby, are you secretly doing bad things again? If you don't behave, I'll hit you" etc., creating a bad and mean feeling for her. .

When chatting with a blind date who has just added WeChat, you should be relaxed and humorous, pay attention to details, sincerely praise, find common topics, and mobilize the other person's emotions. Only in this way can the chat proceed smoothly and provide the basis for further progress.lay a good foundation for the further development of relations.