Some girls will obviously not accept the pursuit of boys, but they will send out some availability signals. They act cute when they can use it, and they don’t reply to messages when they don’t need it. It seems that boys are about to give up. Pull it back, get closer and push it away, deliberately cultivating some of your own spare tires in order to gain gender dividends. So what kind of boys are easily used as backup by such girls?
1. The only value is good And touching
What some boys can bring to girls is to take meticulous care of them and often do things that impress girls. This is certainly useful, but that’s all that can be done.
At first, a girl may develop a liking for such a boy because she is moved, and may also stay with such a boy because she enjoys care and dependence, but she is deliberately determined that she will definitely not fall in love with such a boy. Because being moved and taken care of can only be moved and taken care of, in the end girls will only classify these boys as spare tires.
2. No independent personality
You have nothing to do, no goals, no future, you There is just no independent personality.
All your emotions will be affected by a woman, and her every smile can affect your life. You have no opinion when things happen, all you think about is how to make her happy.
You never love yourself. You can live a bad life yourself, but you must let her live a good life. You can sacrifice everything just for her happiness. It looks great, but it stops short of being great.
I want to ask you, if you have no independent personality, what can a girl love? Love is the mutual attraction of two personalities, so if you don’t have your own life and your life is all about her, what can she love?
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All your kindness, care and touching can be easily replaced. The only thing waiting for you is to become a spare tire in the end.
3. Give unconditionally and dare not ask for anything
"Get a ticket for me, I will give you the money You"
"Hey, no, no, I have it"
"Help me fix a computer"
"Come on, come on"
< p> Any handsome boy will add, OK, leave your affairs to me. By the way, how do you want to thank me?Invite me to dinner or to a movie?
You All your actions are free, and girls will treat you as free, which is what we commonly call atm.
4. Lack of consistency
Consistency is divided into verbal behaviorsConsistency, already consistent.
Boys who have no consistency in language and behavior are like this: "Okay, since you find me annoying, I will definitely not bother you again."
It was very embarrassing at the time, and secondly The sky comes back like a pug, "What are you doing? Have you slept?"
"Don't sleep too late in the future, it's not good for staying up late."
Then he sends a message to the girl in the middle of the night, " Come chat with me for a while."
The inconsistency between words and deeds gives girls the impression that this boy is talking too much. Even if I don’t treat you as a backup, I still can’t fall in love with you.
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