When it comes to first love, I always feel it's a mix of sweetness and nervousness. I remember when I first fell in love, I became a completely different person. I wanted to share everything with him, even the stray cats on the street. Back then, I was truly the epitome of a "love-struck brain."
Looking back now, those behaviors during my first love were actually quite endearing. For instance, I would get extremely shy, blushing for a long time just from holding hands; I placed great importance on rituals, believing every anniversary deserved a grand celebration; and I was easily moved, feeling elated all day just from hearing "I love you."
But honestly, first love can also be painful. As "Bai Youyou" in the comments section mentioned, sometimes you really get hurt. I remember back then, a careless remark from him could make me cry under the covers for hours. Now, thinking about it, it seems both silly and adorable.
To avoid losing both love and money, I believe the most important thing is to stay clear-headed. During first love, we tend to idealize the other person, thinking they are the whole world. But in reality, love requires rationality. As "Shi T" said, don't put the other person on too high a pedestal; sincerity for sincerity is the key.
Another important point is to learn to be independent. In first love, we often want to give our best to the other person, even at the expense of our own savings. But love is not a transaction; more effort doesn't necessarily mean more returns. Sometimes, maintaining a certain distance and independence can actually make the relationship last longer.
Lastly, I want to say that while first love is beautiful, don't be too obsessed with it. As "LOqj" said, may sincerity be met with sincerity, and may love be clear. If a relationship makes you feel tired and uneasy, then bravely let go. After all, love should bring happiness, not pain.
In summary, first love is a beautiful experience in life, but it's also important to learn to protect yourself. I hope every girl experiencing her first love can find someone who truly understands and loves her.
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