Recently, while chatting with friends, the topic of love came up, and I suddenly realized that many men struggle to understand women's thoughts when pursuing them. In fact, women's words and actions hide many little secrets, and with careful observation, you can discern whether she is truly suitable for a relationship. Today, I want to share some of my observations and thoughts with you.
First and foremost, I believe the most important factor in determining whether a woman is suitable for a relationship is whether she reciprocates your efforts. Love is a two-way street, not a one-sided endeavor. For example, it's expected that the man pays when you go out together, but if even small things like buying a bottle of water or a skewer of grilled meat require you to foot the bill, there might be an issue. As my friend put it, "She was closer to the payment code, carrying bags, yet she insisted on waiting for you to pay." This could either indicate a lack of emotional intelligence or a complete unwillingness to reciprocate. Such a woman might only be interested in taking from you without giving back. Therefore, it's better to distance yourself from such situations early on.
Secondly, to assess whether a woman is suitable for a relationship, observe the company she keeps. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." If a woman frequently associates with gamblers, she might not be a reliable partner. After all, after marriage, she might spend most of her time away from home. So, to find a dependable girlfriend, start by understanding who she spends her time with.
Let's talk about the quality of kindness. I believe kindness surpasses all other qualities. If a woman shows compassion towards animals, empathy for the socially vulnerable, and respect for the elderly, she is likely a kind person. Conversely, if someone lacks basic kindness, she might turn a blind eye to abused animals, ignore an elderly person who has fallen, or even find amusement in mocking others. Can you expect such a woman to treat you with genuine kindness and sincerity?
Another interesting point is to look at the difference between her real self and her photos. Nowadays, everyone likes to edit their photos, and it"s normal for a woman to look slightly different in person. However, if the editing is excessive, it might indicate a problem. For instance, some women edit their photos to the point where even their own mothers wouldn't recognize them, suggesting a tendency to over-package themselves. Women who like to over-package themselves usually have open social channels, meaning they could potentially meet new friends at any time. Unless you are exceptionally well-suited, issues are likely to arise in the future.
Lastly, I believe mutual attraction is the foundation of a good start. Many might say, "If you don't pursue, how can you attract her?" But from a woman's perspective, if you don't attract her, how can you have a chance to pursue her? For example, if you ask her what kind of man she likes, she might choose not to tell you; if you invite her out, she might decline; if you try to chat with her, she might find reasons to ignore you. So, whether you can win her over might already have an answer in her heart.
In conclusion, love is a complex subject that requires careful observation and understanding. I hope my insights can be of help to you. If you have similar experiences or thoughts, feel free to leave a comment below, and let"s discuss together!
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