If the way you greet a girl is the same with no highlights, then the girl may not pay attention at all, and you won’t be able to remember whether she responded or not. She may just close it after reading it. How to say hello on WeChat to attract girls to chat? How can we continue the conversation smoothly after saying hello?
1. How to say hello when chatting with girls
First let’s talk about the underlying logic of chatting and saying hello with girls: The underlying logic is to make girls feel that you are different from others, that you are more humorous and understand girls, and have emotional intelligence. higher. No matter what method you use, as long as you achieve this goal, girls will still be very happy to make friends with you. A good opening is half the battle, attracting the girl's attention in the first place is the key.
How to say hello to attract girls:
1) Praise opening: big eyes, good at talking
2) Teasing opening: When I see long legs, I will So shy
3) Shake off the baggage and start: I want to tell my mother that I know a little beauty.
4) Nickname opening: little cutie, little fool, little dried fish
5) Smooth opening: Hi, hello.
The above greeting methods are enough for you, and you can change the opening according to the specific situation. The most commonly used and unmistakable greeting is - Hi, hello. If a girl is really interested in you, starting with a compliment is a way to win a lot of favor, and she may be attracted to you from the beginning.
2. How to chat after greeting a girl
The above introduces how to greet a girl. The important thing is After the conversation has started, how should you continue chatting with girls? After all, your purpose is not just to say hello to girls, but to ask girls out through chatting. Remember: don’t invite girls directly without chatting for a few words. That way the success rate is very low and the efficiency is not high. Because your purpose is too strong, it will make girls feel very uncomfortable. What is a good model? ——Let’s chat for a few words first. When both parties feel good, you can invite the girl out.
Then after the opening, how to talk? First of all, please avoid checking your household registration! For example: Where are you from? How tall are you? How old are you? Do you live here? Wait, these are all asking for value--). And no one likes to be asked for all the time, so how do you start a conversation with a girl?
——Value exchange.
On social software, it is information exchange. For example, you first obtain information based on her photos, then look at her selfies, her environment, and her hobbies. These are all topics that can be discussed directly.
For example: Look at her photos eating Japanese food in a restaurant. You can just say - I see you like eating Japanese food. Then comes the topic of Japanese food. You can talk about your own opinions and feelings, and you can also talk about what the other person likes to eat and drink.
——The key is to start chatting first. After chatting, you can find an opportunity to invite girls. For example, I see that you like eating Japanese food. I know a Japanese food restaurant that tastes very authentic. How about we go there to eat together another day?
At this time, if the girl says yes, just find a suitable time to make an appointment. If she doesn’t reply or rejects you, don’t talk to her at this time, don’t ask her again, and take the initiative to lower the price. once. Just don't look for her at this time, and find someone else. Anyway, there are so many people who like you, just find someone who is willing to date you.
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