In relationships, girls often test boys’ performance. These trials may be unexpected, but if you know them ahead of time, you can handle them with ease. Here are some tests and coping methods that girls may use.
1. Testing loyalty
Girls sometimes test a boy’s loyalty, for example by testing whether he Will associate with other women or hint that he also has other suitors. If a boy doesn't act firm enough, girls may think he isn't loyal enough.
How to deal with it: Boys need to make it clear that they only want to be with girls and will not be attracted to other people. At the same time, boys can also show their attention and care to girls to make her feel their importance.
2. Testing patience
Girls sometimes deliberately delay time or ask the same question repeatedly to test boys’ patience. If a guy doesn't answer questions patiently or becomes agitated, girls may think he doesn't have enough patience.
How to deal with it: Boys need to stay calm and give girls enough time to think and answer questions. At the same time, boys can also take the initiative to provide help and support to let girls feel their care and understanding.
3. Testing honesty
Girls sometimes deliberately ask questions or situations to test a boy’s honesty, such as asking him if he has ever deceived others or hinting that he also has bad habits. If a guy can't answer honestly or appears hesitant, girls may think he's being dishonest.
How to deal with it: Boys need to be sincere and answer girls' questions candidly. At the same time, boys can also show their integrity and integrity to girls, making her feel trustworthy.
4. Testing responsibility
Girls sometimes deliberately create some difficulties or challenges to test a boy’s sense of responsibility, such as asking him to take on a certain task or face a certain problem. If a boy fails to respond actively or avoids responsibilities, girls may think that he is not responsible enough.
Coping methods: Boys need to actively respond and take their own responsibilities. At the same time, boys can also show their maturity and stability to girls and let her feel their reliability.
In relationships, girls often test boys’ performance. These trials may be unexpected, but if you know them ahead of time, you can handle them with ease. Boys need to remain sincere, patient, firm and responsible, so that girls can feel their importance, credibility, reliability and maturity.
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