Sometimes men actually keep a natural distance from married women. After all, they are already married and they cannot do things that destroy other people's families. But if you keep a distance from a married woman, but the married woman takes the initiative to chat with you and ask you to play, etc., what does she mean? Next, Xiaoyu Senior Editor will analyze for everyone. Is it normal for a married woman to chat frequently with friends of the opposite sex?
1. She regards you as a friend
Sometimes a married woman will use her married status as a protective color. She feels that she is married, so she will contact you as a friend. Man, after all, having many friends is easy. In this case, the content of the chat between a married woman and you generally does not involve feelings, and the chat is normal. After all, if both parties are married, many of the problems encountered in marriage will be communicated together. For example, if a woman is confused and has a fight with her husband, she will talk to colleagues of the opposite sex, and then hope that friends of the opposite sex can give her ideas. Of course, in addition to relationships, there is also work. The topic on the topic is just a simple friendship.
2. Married women want to have an affair with you
Not all married women want to have an affair with you after marriage. Life is very happy and perfect. When a married woman's life is not going well after marriage, she will want to find emotional sustenance outside and find someone else to have an affair with. After all, people you meet casually are unreliable, and friends of the opposite sex are more knowledgeable. If a married woman wants to have an affair with you, then the content of her chat with you may be flirtatious, and her contact with you is not limited to chatting, but she will also take the initiative to ask you to meet. After a long time, originally, at first It was indeed a pure relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, but it slowly turned sour.
@patridaxing: I met a colleague from my work unit when we participated in an event together. She added me on WeChat, but I didn’t notice her during the event. We both like sports. We often meet up to exercise together, and we gradually get to know each other. Now I know that she is married and I am single. At first, I only regarded her as a good friend of the opposite sex and had no thoughts about her. I believe that there is a pure friendship between men and women. As the relationship lasts longer, the relationship becomes more mature. Also close, I developed other feelings for her.
Her husband rarely has time to spend with her. We will eat together, walk, go shopping, and even go to her home alone to do what she does. She would often contact me when she would give me food, and there were quite a lot of chat topics in the same work unit. I am a person of few words. We often talked on the phone for more than an hour, sometimes late at night. After my feelings for her changed, she took the initiative to contact me. I just never refused or ignored her. Of course, I was less proactive in the past.
To be honest, except for the fact that we didn’t have any intimate actions, we felt like a couple, and we didn’t even contact each other that frequently. I found that I fell in love with her, and I fell in love with her over time. It was difficult for me to control it. After all, she was married, but She is indeed very close to me, and she always takes the initiative to contact me, but I can’t bear to ignore her.Yes, when I am trapped in it, I feel that other women except her are no longer attractive. I still don’t know what to do in the future, so let’s take it one step at a time!
Regardless of whether a married woman who frequently chats with friends of the opposite sex really treats you as a friend or wants to have an affair with you, it is recommended that you keep your distance. After all, her married status really requires you to think twice before acting. Otherwise, the situation may eventually get out of control.
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