If you are not familiar with a girl, especially if you have never met in person, no matter how well you chat on WeChat or on the phone, you may not be able to find a topic to talk about when you first meet. This is because if you don't find a way to start a conversation, a girl's impression of you will be greatly reduced. Let me share with you the topics to chat with a girl when you meet her for the first time, so that you and the girl can have a lively chat online and offline.
1. Talk about topics that girls are interested in
Before you meet a girl for the first time, you must have already had a good conversation online, so in the process, you must have a deep understanding of the girl’s feelings. Learn about hobbies. Then before meeting, learn more about what girls are interested in, and then find topics that girls are interested in. For example, if a girl likes movies, you can talk to her about movies and which newly released movies are good recently (if appropriate, you can make an appointment to watch them together); if a girl likes flowers, you can talk to her about flowers, or you can make an appointment to go to flowers. Stroll around the market. Girls are very idealistic and ambitious types, so you can talk to her about life, your ideals, what you have seen, heard and felt recently (don’t brag), and talk about things that you think are interesting. When meeting and chatting with a girl for the first time, don’t be too deliberate or too rigid in picking up topics, just improvise.
2. Choose the topic based on the girl’s reaction
When meeting a girl for the first time, it is inevitable that you will choose the wrong topic. , so the topic should be chosen based on girls’ reactions. I would rather talk less than touch on topics that are taboo. For example, if you ask a girl where she works, and she doesn't answer you directly, but starts to become cold, then she may not want to talk to you about this matter, so you should stop in time. In addition, when meeting a girl for the first time, do not ask about family background, privacy, or sensitive topics. It is also best not to deliberately create opportunities to talk about emotional topics at this time. Just chat with her like a normal friend. The purpose of the first date is not to make her fall in love with you, but to get you to know her better. The more you know about her, the clearer you will be about whether she is the one you want to pursue, and it will be easier to grasp the rhythm of getting along with her in the future.
Finally, the topic of conversation when meeting a girl for the first time is of course important, but if you have humorous qualities, it is important to know how to please a girl. Nothing could be better. Furthermore, you can make more thoughtful little gestures, such as helping to cover the sun, pulling out chairs, etc., and then give some appropriate little care later. A considerate and warm man is irresistible to almost every girl. However these are not the point. Relationships won by pleasing others will not last long. The key is to have your own charm. For example, let's say you are not only handsome (it doesn't matter if you are not handsome, we can also look at the connotation), you also dress elegantly, you are also very talented, and you have a good career. Then you may not need to think too much about what topics to prepare for chatting with girls.
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