When chatting with a girl you like, her reply is always cold. When this happens, it is usually because there is something wrong with your chatting method, which makes the girl not interested in chatting. So what should we do in this situation? The editor below will teach you 3 methods to help her regain her enthusiasm for chatting.
1. Know how to make her happy
As a creature like a girl, when she is happy, you do She thinks you're right about everything. When she's unhappy, she'll try to find something wrong with you in whatever you do. It's actually okay to give you a cold reply even when you're chatting with her. She even feels like you're caring about breathing. Make mistakes.
So if you want to chat well with a girl, make her more willing to reply to you, and make her happy, these are essential skills. Only by keeping her in a happy state and in a happy mood when she gets along with you can the development of your relationship be as smooth as silk.
So what should we say to make girls laugh?
You can make fun of yourself
For example, make fun of yourself, or pretend to be narcissistic .
Girl: "You know a lot."
Boy: "Have you seen my head? Why do you think it is so big? Because it is filled with knowledge!"< /p>
Girl: "What you say is so interesting."
Boy: "That's right, my talent has never been lost to anyone's since I was little. But what makes me more proud is that I These four words describe me: my good looks and my outstanding talent.”
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< p> Sometimes there is a fine line between making fun of yourself and pretending to be cool. If you are not proficient in it, it is easy for the girl to hear your words as something other than making her happy. The difference lies in the tone and the degree of teasing.The more serious your tone is, the more the other party will feel as if this is how you view yourself, and she will think you are showing off. Use a humorous tone so that girls know you are joking and don't really think you are that powerful. This will make your words have a humorous effect.
You can also exaggerate and praise her
"Wow, the original singer of your song has to be inferior. You have to send me the recording. I want to listen to it as a ringtone on my phone every day."
"It's over. I think I'm going to be single for the rest of my life. Because after seeing you, other girls have eclipsed me. How can you make me like them anymore!!!"
Remember to be exaggerated. Our purpose is not to praise, but to make the girl laugh. If the degree of praise is closer to her true situation, then in the eyes of the girl, your words are just pure praise.
2. Make good use of third-party topics
The so-called third-party topics refer to topics that are not related to you and the girl, such as talking about food, talking about current affairs, talking about Gossip, talk about games, etc.
What are the functions of third-party topics:
(1) When you first get to know a girl, focusing the topic on a girl will arouse her resistance. , but focus the topic on yourself... Sorry, the girl is not very interested in you. She doesn't want to talk to you all the time, so she will naturally become colder with you and the girl.
Make good use of it. By using irrelevant third-party topics, you can avoid talking directly to you, eliminate her nervousness and strangeness when facing you, and give her more reasons to reply to you.
(2) Use third-party topics to extend the topic. You can transition the topic to yourself and exchange information with the girl in the most natural way.
(3) In the process of understanding, we cannot always dig out the girl's information, and we cannot pour out the beans. Just like dumping your own information to girls, you need some other topics for transition and adjustment. The role of third-party topics is to fill the gaps between topics for information exchange.
3. Don’t ask stupid questions
What kind of questions are considered stupid questions?
Including these types of questions If there are no elements, we will look stupid: no common sense, meaningless, and no discernment.
These "three noes" topics can often make girls speechless and choke, and the replies will naturally be cold. , I don’t even want to reply a word.
What does it mean to have no common sense?
For example, ask a girl at 12 noon: "What are you doing?"
12 noon. What do you usually do? Unless you are sleeping in, everyone is usually having lunch. For questions like this, which everyone basically knows the answer to based on common sense, don’t bring it up as a topic. Girls will think you answer this question. This question is simply a waste of your energy.
If you want to chat with a girl at 12 noon, it is more natural to ask her "Have you finished eating?" than "What are you doing?"
What is meaningless?
The purpose of chatting with girls is to exchange information and warm up the relationship. If there is any, it will neither allow you to obtain any useful information nor upgrade the relationship. , you can't continue the topic, and it's boring. You don't even really want to know anything from the question, you just ask it for the sake of asking. This kind of topic is meaningless.
For example, a girl tells you something. You and she are eating, and you ask her: "What did you eat?"
Her face is full of black lines, and the girl doesn't understand why you ask such a thing? Are you going to ask me where you bought the food later? What does it taste like? What kind of box does it come in? What kind of cooking methods does the store use?French?
What does blindness mean?
Girl: "Wow, it rained heavily suddenly. Fortunately, I got in the car, otherwise I would have been soaked in the rain."
Boy: "Yeah, it's raining so hard. By the way, what are you doing?"
The black girl asked, did I just say get on the bus? What else can I do? , take a car.
If you don’t review the topic while chatting, the girl has clearly conveyed the information to you, but you didn’t realize it. This is called lack of eyesight. Girls will think, bro, do you really not need to recharge your IQ?
If she answers your words, it means she has to convey the message she has already conveyed again, so the girl will have to spend extra money. She spends her energy talking with you over and over again about some meaningless and boring topics, which can easily wear away her patience and make her replies become colder and colder.
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