When chatting with girls, many boys suffer from not knowing what to say when they initiate the chat, and they are afraid of talking about sex when they say a few naughty jokes. In fact, most girls don’t hate boys for being lustful, but they hate that you don’t respect her. !When many boys are flirting with girls, it is because they are too cramped and unable to let go, and they are afraid of making girls unhappy, so they will be so timid and coy, resulting in awkward conversations!
Want girls to treat you If you are interested in a topic, you have to learn what the headline makers do - catch people's attention, and then add richness in the content to make girls feel interesting to talk about, and add some sense of humor. Once such a topic is opened, girls will find it difficult to be reserved and will not hesitate. No matter how cool you are!
1. Hot topics that girls are interested in
Now Weibo has almost become It is a social network APP used by many girls. There are many female users on it who share and interact with some timely information.
Therefore, there is no shortage of hot search topics on Weibo that interest girls. When you are about to strike up a conversation or initiate a chat with a girl, using hot search topics can start a conversation.
2. Let girls think that there are deep emotional topics
When chatting with girls, if they often Girls will feel bored if they hear a lot of words to flirt with girls. Flashy tricks to flirt with girls are not as deep and emotionally resonant.
For example, discuss with girls: Why do people yearn for love?
Love is a certain kind of social consciousness. People’s blind pursuit of love is based on the nature of imitation. Social consciousness determines The direction that people imitate is called conformity or sociality.
Showing your thoughts, personality, opinions, etc. in front of girls can greatly promote girls’ favorability towards you and also make girls feel that the chat with you is of “quality”.
3. Humorous experience topics
When you take the initiative to chat with girls, you should learn to take the initiative! The purpose of chat is not only content, but also function.
For example, if you take the initiative to talk to a girl about cheating on exams when you were a child; if you take the initiative to talk to a girl about how you once won the second prize in the national physics competition, the effects of the two topics are worlds apart.
All chat topics need to have the effect of showing your attractiveness. At this time, you need to have a rich experience. Having rich experience is of course not enough. You must also show it in a humorous way of expression. Only in this way will girls be willing to listen and continue talking.
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