I like a girl, but after pursuing her for a long time without any results, some boys come up with the idea of ????saving the country and trying to pursue the girl through the other person’s parents. However, is this method really reliable?
There seems to be a brother who encountered a similar thing:
The other party is We are classmates in high school. We rarely communicate with each other and rarely chat on WeChat. The boy’s mother and the girl’s mother are classmates. They went out to have dinner together under the persuasion of their parents. They knew that the other’s parents meant this, but they were all joking. Skip it.
Since that time, there has been another period of silence, no communication, not even interaction in the circle of friends. Before returning home for the National Day, the man found a matchmaker to contact the woman’s mother.
The girl’s parents think that the man is in good condition, but the girl feels that although they are classmates, they rarely communicate with each other, and they don’t even greet ordinary classmates. She jumped directly to the matchmaker and urged her to get married. What's more important was that the boy directly surpassed her and gained the approval of his parents. He didn't even have the most basic emotional expression, so he flatly rejected this boy.
You must know that relationships are a matter of two people. Everyone wants to find the other half who suits their own needs, and there is no basis for it. Feel free to decide whoever's opinion you want. Emotion is something that does not exist out of thin air, but is increased through many foundations. It is love and can include like.
Everyone has their own set of criteria for judging, and girls’ parents and girls may also have different standards. Even if the girl's parents are satisfied with you, but the girl still doesn't like you, your efforts to please the other parent will be in vain.
Moreover, it is a very disrespectful sign to chase a girl and go directly to the girl to please the girl's parents. After all, you are in a relationship with the girl and not with her parents.
Therefore, it is not a wise choice to pursue a girl directly from her parents. It may even mean forcing marriage. It is completely No consideration was given to the woman's feelings.
If you want to catch up with a girl, you should first get to know her personally and get along well with her before contacting her parents. Otherwise, you will end up with nothing.
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