Chatting with girls is supposed to increase familiarity and bring them closer to each other, but many straight men have been using some fatal chatting methods to make girls’ favorability decrease during chatting. Below, the editor will take stock of the fatal mistakes that straight men will make when chatting. If you don't change, you will be alone.
1. A strong sense of need
A sense of need is the number one factor in getting along with girls. A strong enemy will make a woman feel like a horny, unloved loser. This is also the basic rule of social interaction between people. Once the balance is broken and you show your kneeling, clingy, and thirsty side, girls will be scared away.
For example, a girl’s chat reply speed is very slow, but you keep replying and adding messages in seconds. The woman didn't reply for a while, but you kept asking about the other person's whereabouts. The other person has just met you, but you already want to marry her.
It’s not that you can’t convey your sense of need, but you have to control your sense of need under girls.
2. Worry about gains and losses
If you make a mistake in one sentence, use ten sentences to explain it. The girl took two minutes to reply, and you already wrote a 200-word apology letter. I wanted to speak, but I was afraid of arousing the girl's resentment. It was a joke, but it felt too much. This is a sign that you are very worried and unsure about yourself.
When you care too much about what a woman thinks of you, it means you lose your "self". You are chatting with women using a false and unreal version of yourself, trying to impress women in this way. In fact, women can sense your inconsistency at a glance.
What women are looking for is not a moral role model. Please stop exporting your false and unconfident side.
3. Too glib
There are two extreme and fatal ways of chatting in the world. A straight man with no interest, a kind of glib funny guy. Both types of men are disgusting to women. The former has no emotional experience when chatting with girls, making women feel boring and boring. The latter chats with girls in a formal manner and flirts constantly, like a monkey jumping up and down.
The most important thing when we chat with girls is attraction, not humor. Humor is a plus, not a requirement. If you are glib and talk without formality, women will lose their obedience and treat you as a talkative joke.
4. Direct and indirect confession
The love between a man and a woman is like a dog being constantly A big balloon, and confession is equivalent to a steel needle pricking the balloon, which will make you immediately fall into passivity. Originally, you could passConvey more attraction to change the way girls feel about you. As a result, if you confess your love directly, it is equivalent to giving the girl the opportunity to directly reject you.
Example:
Boy: I like you, let’s be together.
Girls:. . . I feel that we are not suitable for each other
Boys: I am sincere
Girls: I am not joking with you either
Remind all friends, don’t worry about women I don’t know if you like her, but women’s social intuition is very sensitive. Don't think of confession as a way to pursue women. Confession itself cannot create any attraction.
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