Chasing girls is an exciting and nervous thing, and chatting is one of the most important parts of the process. When chatting, we need to have a correct attitude in order to better communicate with each other and increase mutual understanding and affection.
1. Don’t rush to confess your feelings
Many boys rush to confess their feelings when they first start chatting. This often makes girls feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, in the early stages of chatting, we should start with some relaxed and interesting topics, such as movies, music, etc. that we like together. Through these topics, you can gradually draw closer to each other and increase mutual favorability.
2. Be polite and respectful
When chatting, we need to pay attention to whether our words and actions Appropriate. Do not use vulgar or offensive language, and do not insult or discriminate against girls. At the same time, we must also respect girls’ opinions and choices and not forcefully interfere with their decisions.
3. Pay more attention to girls
In chatting, we should pay more attention to girls and understand their hobbies, living habits, etc. Through this understanding, we can better communicate and engage with girls to make them feel seen and valued.
4. Don’t blindly pursue a “sense of sophistication”
Many boys will blindly pursue a “sense of sophistication” when chatting and use some advanced vocabulary or topics to show their knowledge. However, doing so often makes girls feel bored and stressed. Therefore, in chatting, we should focus on being relaxed and interesting, and not pursue the superficial "sensation of high-end" too much.
5. Stay authentic and honest
In chatting, we should stay authentic and honest. Don't deliberately cover up your shortcomings or fabricate your experiences. This will only make girls lose trust and interest in us. Instead, we should have the courage to showcase our strengths and strengths and admit our shortcomings.
6. Don’t rely too much on chat
Although chatting is one of the important links in the process of chasing girls, we can’t rely too much on chatting. In addition to chatting, we should actively participate in various activities to expand our social circle and increase our chances of contact with girls.
In the process of chasing girls, chatting is a very important part. By adjusting our mentality, we can communicate better with girls and increase mutual understanding and affection. I hope the above tips can be helpful to everyone.
❋ Tags: