Many low-income men use nonsense like "I'm ugly and have no money" to comfort the weakness deep inside. The result will only make people look down on them more and more, and they will feel more and more useless, so they give up on themselves. , I have low self-esteem and self-pity, and I don’t dare to socialize with girls. What's wrong with ugly boys? Not a human being? You are a boy, but the premise is that you are a human being, and a human being has feelings and can fall in love. Let me share with you what to do if a boy is ugly? Even ugly boys can fall in love!
1. Principle of Love Value Matching
The kind of person you are will find you. As soon as you leave campus and enter society, even if you don’t say it clearly, you will be happy in your heart. I have already made a plan, and I will quietly weigh it in my heart when I get to know you. What to measure? Measure your social value, your financial resources, your social background, your family conditions, etc. If it is a blind date, it will be even more obvious. Everyone will directly talk about education, salary, job, house, car, etc. These are your values. The purpose of blind date is to quickly solve this problem and see if each other's values ??match. This is what our relatives often say, "a perfect match."
So, if you are an ordinary migrant worker and want to find a rich second-generation girl, this is not in line with value matching. Your monthly salary is 5k, then you should find a girl whose monthly salary is similar to yours. So what if you want to find something better? Same thing – value matching. You should first increase your monthly income to 10,000 yuan, and then consider these things.
Love is inherently in line with the law of value matching. For example: You want to find a celebrity as your girlfriend, but the circles are different and the incomes are very different. Even if you add her as a friend, you are not of the same value level. If you want to match, you must improve yourself first.
2. Strive to improve yourself
Many ugly boys like "quick success" very much. But what really changes you is your unique connotation, and these things cannot be quickened. The quick way to get out of singles is to make yourself handsome.
There are so many ways to make yourself handsome. First go to the barber shop and let the barber design a handsome and clean hairstyle. Then look at the outfits of a fashion blogger on a certain red book, and then make your own outfit. Pay more attention to skin care and exercise. Men's insistence on exercising and sweating every day is the best maintenance. Losing weight is roughly equivalent to plastic surgery.
The next step is to take pictures. Don’t think that girls say they don’t care about their faces, they are all “appearance associations”. You can take a beautiful photo with a clean and tidy background, and then just do a little retouching. It doesn’t matter if you are not handsome, but you must be clean and tidy. The background can be street photography, a coffee shop, natural scenery, etc.
The next step is to share your life in your circle of friends. How to share it? You can learn how to post in the Moments of girls you like. This is the principle of equal attraction. her dayI often like to go to cafes to take photos of hair ties, and you can do the same. She usually likes to travel and take photos, and you can do the same. You can post your achievements, show off your fitness, show off your cooking, etc. Giving people a positive feeling is not hypocrisy, it is the kind of person you should be.
So, do you still think that ugly boys are not suitable for dating? Of course not. If you improve yourself first and make yourself stronger and better, someone will take the initiative to like you. Because when you are looking for light, you also become the light.
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